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The Story Collider

Leaving Home: Stories about having to leave in order to find home

The Story Collider

Story Collider, Inc.

Arts, Science, Society & Culture, Personal Journals, Performing Arts

4.4824 Ratings

🗓️ 3 January 2020

⏱️ 36 minutes

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Summary

This week we present two stories of people who had to leave home to find a new home.

Part 1: When Ph.D student Ali Mattu's girlfriend tells him she is moving to New York City, he has to make some tough decisions about where home is.

Part 2: Arlo Pérez Esquivel struggles to define his boundaries with his father while he is pursuing his education in another country.

Ali Mattu is a cognitive behavioral therapist who helps kids and adults with anxiety disorders. Through YouTube, Dr. Mattu teaches a global audience how to use psychological science to achieve their goals. He’s created over 100 videos for his YouTube channel, The Psych Show, which have been seen over 1,400,00 million times. He has been interviewed by the New York Times, appeared on Buzzfeed, MTV, CBS, NBC, PBS, and has the honor of being referenced, and not made fun of, on HBO’s Last Week Tonight with John Oliver. Dr. Mattu is a licensed clinical psychologist and was an assistant professor at the Columbia University Irving Medical Center in New York City. He presently serves on the Board of Directors of The Story Collider and creates curriculum for the Pop Culture Hero Coalition. He has served in a variety of leadership roles within the American Psychological Association.

Arlo Pérez Esquivel was raised in Mexico until the age of 16, when he left for the United States. There, he moved across multiple states, and lived in the homes of different friends and relatives in order to finish his education. During this constant movement, Arlo developed a passion for street photography. His work attempts to investigate the “sense of place” by capturing people, their environment, and the relationship between the two. He is now a Digital Associate Producer for NOVA on PBS, currently working on a ten-part digital series on how life and science are done in Antarctica.

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0:00.0

A science story, huh?

0:04.0

Is NYU scientist the...

0:06.0

I felt it was right.

0:08.0

And I just thought, well...

0:10.0

It was that golden moment.

0:12.0

Because science was on my side.

0:15.0

Hello, everyone.

0:24.6

Welcome to The Story Clider, where we bring you true personal stories about science.

0:29.6

We are your host, Erin Barker.

0:31.4

And Liz Neely.

0:32.8

And this week, we're presenting stories about leaving home.

0:36.7

This is something you and I have both done a fair bit, Erin.

0:39.6

Yeah?

0:39.8

How many times have you moved?

0:41.6

I actually, I haven't moved that many times, but I've had intense, extreme moves.

0:48.0

Gone from West Virginia and Ohio to the U.K.

0:51.1

And then back and then to New York.

0:53.9

So culturally different places.

0:57.0

Right. I mean, I had a little bit of that culture shock too. I was in Iceland and then Germany and then to Ohio myself.

1:03.9

I think I've counted 18 different moves between like, you know, states and cities and then lots of moves within.

1:11.5

It's a little overwhelming.

1:13.1

But I was so, I was digging because I was thinking, I wonder if you and I are true outliers on this.

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