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Care and Feeding | Slate's parenting show

Leave the Dog Alone!

Care and Feeding | Slate's parenting show

Slate Audio

Society & Culture, Kids & Family, Parenting

4.41K Ratings

🗓️ 4 June 2026

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Summary

On this episode: Lucy Lopez, Elizabeth Newcamp, and Zak Rosen open up the mailbag and find a variety of questions. They give tips for teaching an eleven-year-old how to ride a bike, discuss how to keep a toddler from terrorizing the family pet, and offer advice to a mom looking for community in a new city. 

Mentioned in the Show:

How to Make Friends as an Adult - How To!

How to Make Friends and Find Your People - Weirdly Helpful

My Kid Forgot How to Ride a Bike - Care and Feeding

Podcast production by Cheyna Roth and Rosemary Belson.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

This episode may contain explicit language.

0:06.2

This is Karen Feeding. We're three friends with kids who get together every week to talk

0:10.6

life, swap advice, and keep each other sane while we muddle through this weird and wonderful

0:15.8

thing called parenting. I'm Zach Rosen. I make another podcast. It's called Weirdly Helpful. And I am Dad to Noah, who's eight, and Ami, who's five. We live in Detroit. Hey, I'm Lucy Lopez. I am Mother to Amelia who's 15, Avery who's 13, and we live in Miami, Florida. I'm Elizabeth Newkamp. I write the homeschool and family travel blog, Dutch Dutch, Goose. I'm the mom to Henry Henry who's 14, Oliver who's 12, and Teddy who's 9. We live in Honolulu, Hawaii. We're here to talk

0:44.6

about the ups, the downs, and everything in between when it comes to parenting. Every week,

0:50.4

we commiserate. We check in with listeners and we try to make this feel like the kind of conversation you have with your friends.

0:58.3

And today we have a listener question bonanza. That's right. We're doing an all listener question episode that'll cover everything from teaching your kid to ride a bike to a dog at its wit's end to find a community after a move.

1:11.5

So stick around.

1:12.4

We'll be right back.

1:17.9

Welcome back.

1:19.5

It's time to jump into our first question.

1:21.5

Lucy, can you read this one?

1:22.5

We'd love to.

1:24.8

Hey host, I need some advice.

1:28.0

My kid is 10 and he never learned how to ride a bike.

1:31.7

Until age eight, we lived in a small apartment in New York City.

1:33.3

What, what? Brooklyn?

1:39.4

There wasn't room for a bike. Learning to ride on the sidewalk or in the bike lane was out of the question.

1:44.2

We could have gone to the park or signed up for one of those classes, but it seemed like it was more hassle than it was worth. Not to mention the danger. I have a few friends who commute on their

1:49.8

bikes and they were constantly talking about rude drivers or someone who got doored. Doesn't

1:55.2

exactly make you want to let your kid ride around the city. Last year, he and I moved upstate

1:59.8

and the kids around her bike. The city

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