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Learning to Respond, Not React (2015-09-02)

Tara Brach

Tara Brach

Buddhism, Religion & Spirituality, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.811.3K Ratings

🗓️ 3 September 2015

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

Learning to Respond, Not React (2015-09-02) - When stressed, we often react with looping fear-thoughts, feelings and behaviors that cause harm to ourselves and/or others. This talk offers three interrelated strategies that can serve us when we’re triggered by stress, and help us find our way back to our natural wisdom, empathy and wholeness of being. By de-conditioning habitual reactivity, we are increasingly able to respond to our life circumstances in ways that serve healing and awakening.

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0:00.0

Greetings. I'm Tara Brock and I'd like to welcome you to these podcasts. While the

0:08.0

talks and meditations are offered freely, we'd very much appreciate your support. To

0:13.7

make a donation or learn more about my schedule, please visit tarbrach.com and our IMCW.org.

0:22.5

Thank you.

0:24.5

Welcome. I'd like to begin with a quote that's pretty much anonymous, although I've seen versions

0:37.5

of it from Christian philosophers and Buddhists and Gandhi. This is it. The thought becomes

0:47.0

the word. The word manifests as the deed. The deed develops into the habit. Habit hardens

0:54.4

into character. Character gives birth to destiny. So watch your thoughts with care and let

1:01.3

them spring from love, born out of respect for all beings. So this is an expression of

1:09.2

karma, which really is saying that causes lead to effects. That when we have certain beliefs

1:15.6

and thoughts, they create certain feelings that then turn into actions and the actions

1:20.9

become habits and those habits end up really creating our sense of identity and if they're

1:28.6

really hardened, become our destiny. And we tend to keep repeating and repeating and

1:35.4

repeating or creatures of habit. So when they create our destiny and when they're based

1:43.9

in fear, these habits, they really become the block in our lives to accessing all that

1:51.0

we can be, to accessing happiness and creativity and in a deep way a sense of our spirit. So I'd

2:00.2

say that one of the deepest expressions of despair that comes my way is when someone will

2:07.0

report that, well, I've been repeating the same pattern of pushing people away, are grasping

2:15.3

on or undermining myself or whatever it is, all my life, as long as I can remember. That's

2:23.0

a feeling of, there's a real feeling of despair because how can I ever change it so deeply

2:28.2

grooved. So tonight's reflection will really be on how we can awaken from these habitual

2:36.4

chains of thinking, feeling, and then acting, this stimulus reaction cycle that we get caught

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