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Dream Big Podcast with Bob Goff and Friends

Laura Story - So Long, Normal

Dream Big Podcast with Bob Goff and Friends

Bob Goff

Religion & Spirituality, Christianity

4.81.9K Ratings

🗓️ 27 October 2021

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

It's always tempting to try to live up to the expectations other people have of us. Even if our past is marked by success, it's burdensome to try to keep that up. 

Normally, most of us keep at it- we keep striving the fulfill the expectations we think people have of who we are and what we do. It can feel overwhelming or frightening to imagine dealing with their disappointment with us. 

Fortunately, we don't have to get stuck in normal- we are new creations every day. This week on the podcast we dig into that conversation with my friend, Laura Story. 

About Laura and her Latest Book In the shifting (or even collapsing) of everything familiar in life, you don’t have to wring your hands in fear. Push past the loss of your “normal” with bestselling author and Bible teacher Laura Story, and step into the new story God is writing for you.

You've been faced with circumstances beyond your control. Your plans are altered. But you have the blessing of a Father who loves you enough to take off the training wheels and place his beloved child in the best possible scenario for your good and growth. So Long, Normal guides you to leave behind the idols of comfort, caution, and routine so you can live strong and well, even when life takes an unwelcome turn.

In her confessional, conversational style, worship leader, Bible teacher, and Christian recording artist Laura Story weaves her own personal stories with examples from Scripture of characters whose lives were upended by unexpected (and undesired) change.

P.S. We'd like to extend to you a free month of our exclusive Bob Weekly content. All you have to do is click this link and sign up for a month of video teachings and a guided curriculum. 

Also on the episode:

Producer & Co-host : Scott Schimmel

The Dream Big Academy

Living a focused, engaged life of love, adventure, and impact shouldn't be a mystery.

It's what we're all wired for, it's what we all long for. But, it's not the norm. From all the places I've traveled to and the people I've met, I know that most people don't experience that kind of life. They feel...

Like they're missing out on a different life, a life that others seem to experience.

That it should've all just worked out by now, but it hasn't.

Frankly, like they're languishing- and this must be as good as it gets. 

But, there's so much more...

That's why we started putting these digital courses together. I can't travel everywhere, and not everyone can travel to me. But, what if there was a way to share life together and walk through these simple ideas I've been learning?

Before, we've released these courses one at a time. Then we'd close the registration. But through the pandemic, we learned that a LOT of people want to keep growing, and they're looking for a framework they can trust. 

So, we put them all together- 6 interactive digital courses. Two specifically designed to help you identify and unleash your big ambitions. One for budding authors. Another for speakers. A course for your family. A course for your career. With more coming in the future.

And, since we already have Bob Weekly as a monthly subscription for exclusive content, we threw that in there, too. 

The Dream Big Academy is the place to go for people wanting to get serious about the shape of their lives. 

I'd love for you to learn more-

Transcript

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0:00.0

Well, it is time for another episode of the Dream Big Podcast with Bob Gough and friends

0:13.0

I am your host, CutChannel.

0:15.2

And if you know anything about the Enneagram, I am a 3.

0:19.2

And a 3, one of the hallmarks of a 3, is my call to hypersensitivity to other people's

0:27.5

opinions.

0:28.5

In many ways, people like me want to do anything, almost at all costs, to maintain an image,

0:35.3

to maintain a sense of you're impressed with me, you think highly of me, and anything

0:41.8

that can feel threatening to that, any kind of mistake that I would make or blunder or

0:48.2

disappointment that I might perceive that you have in me is a big deal.

0:52.8

It's a big deal.

0:54.0

Part of the growth journey for someone like me is to find the courage to come out of

0:59.4

hiding and be authentic and real, and vulnerable, and messy, and then kind of feel what happens,

1:06.2

deal with the consequences, deal with missing expectations that other people have in me.

1:12.5

And I know it's not just a 3 thing, I think for everybody, there's an element of we want

1:18.0

to maintain this, we want people to think well of us, to think highly of us.

1:22.1

Now some people have that at a lower degree, some of you, maybe you think of someone in

1:27.9

your life just doesn't give a rip about what other people think, almost to the fault.

1:33.2

But I think at our core, we want people to like us, appreciate us, love us and accept

1:38.9

us.

1:39.9

And this week we're going to dig into that because a part of this idea being someone

1:43.3

who dreams big with our lives is to find something that's bold and do something that's

1:48.4

out of the ordinary, to do something that's maybe beyond or different than other people's

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