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The One You Feed

Languishing vs. Flourishing: How to Feel Alive Again with Corey Keyes

The One You Feed

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Education, Self-improvement, Religion & Spirituality, Health & Fitness, Buddhism, Mental Health

4.62.5K Ratings

🗓️ 11 February 2025

⏱️ 70 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, Corey Keyes explores the concept of languishing vs. flourishing and how to feel alive again He delves into the often-overlooked emotional state that exists between mental illness and thriving and discusses how many of us can feel worn down by life and stuck in a gray zone of stagnation. Corey shares his insights on the importance of mindset and how changing the way we think about our daily tasks can lead us to a more fulfilling life. The discussion touches on the critical aspects of purpose, connection, and vitality, offering listeners strategies to move from languishing to flourishing.

Key Takeaways:

  • 00:05:29 – The Role of Positive Psychology and Mental Health
  • 00:06:46 – Corey’s Background and the Successful Aging Research Network
  • 00:08:08 – The Purpose of Positive Psychology and Addressing Languishing
  • 00:09:25 – Flourishing Despite Mental Health Conditions
  • 00:10:08 – The Relationship Between Flourishing and Mental Illness
  • 00:12:49 – The Challenge of Defining Recovery in Addiction and Mental Health
  • 00:14:02 – The Lack of Peer Support Groups for Depression
  • 00:15:05 – The Role of Experts in Mental Health
  • 00:16:15 – The Difference Between Sharing with Experts and Peer Support
  • 00:17:07 – The Importance of Having a Clear Program in Support Groups
  • 00:18:04 – The Need for a New Approach to Mental Health Support Programs
  • 00:19:01 – Defining Languishing and Its Distinction from Depression
  • 00:20:36 – The Overlap Between Languishing and Depression
  • 00:22:29 – The Impact of Languishing on Mental Health
  • 00:23:39 – Personal Reflections on Eliminating Suffering and Seeking Joy
  • 00:25:04 – The Challenge of Recalibrating After Addiction
  • 00:25:58 – The Importance of Functioning Well
  • 00:28:05 – The Nuances of Feeling Good vs. Functioning Well
  • 00:30:09 – The Difference Between Satisfaction and Momentary Feelings
  • 00:31:04 – The Role of Storytelling in Perceived Well-Being
  • 00:32:49 – The Importance of Meaning and Values Over Mood
  • 00:33:59 – Allowing Self-Assessment in Measuring Well-Being
  • 00:35:53 – The Criteria for Flourishing and Languishing
  • 00:37:08 – Encouraging Reflection and Integration for Listeners
  • 00:38:18 – The Importance of Functioning Well in Achieving Flourishing
  • 00:40:28 – The Difficulty of Achieving Social Well-Being
  • 00:41:10 – The Five Vitamins of Flourishing
  • 00:42:01 – Integrating Flourishing Activities into Daily Life
  • 00:45:05 – The Importance of Mindset in Achieving Flourishing
  • 00:47:09 – Research on Mindsets and Practical Applications

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0:00.0

There's such beautiful research on mindsets now about just change the way you think about the things

0:07.6

you have to do so you get the things you need from the things you have to do.

0:20.0

Welcome to the one you feed.

0:22.4

Throughout time, great thinkers have recognized the importance of the thoughts we have.

0:27.2

Quotes like, garbage in, garbage out, or you are what you think, ring true.

0:32.6

And yet, for many of us, our thoughts don't strengthen or empower us.

0:36.9

We tend toward negativity, self-pity,

0:39.6

jealousy, or fear. We see what we don't have instead of what we do. We think things that hold us

0:45.6

back and dampen our spirit. But it's not just about thinking. Our actions matter. It takes

0:51.7

conscious, consistent, and creative effort to make a life worth living.

0:56.3

This podcast is about how other people keep themselves moving in the right direction, how

1:00.7

they feed their good wolf.

1:05.1

When I saw the title of today's guest's book, Linguishing, How to Feel Alive Again in a

1:10.5

world that Wares This Down, I knew this

1:13.0

conversation had to happen. Because really, who hasn't felt worn down by life? And is someone

1:19.1

who's wrestled with staying connected to what makes me feel alive, this topic hit home. Today I'm

1:25.5

talking with Corey Keys, the researcher who coined the term languishing.

1:30.0

It's that space between mental illness and thriving, a state of stagnation that often goes

1:35.8

on notice.

1:37.0

Corey's work explores how we can move from this gray zone into flourishing where purpose,

1:43.1

connection, and vitality live. If you've ever felt stuck in

1:47.5

neutral, just getting through your days but not really living them, this conversation is for you.

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