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Am I the Genius?

Ladies, What do You Wish Self-Proclaimed 'NICE GUYS' Would Understand?

Am I the Genius?

youtube.com/@amithegenius

Self-improvement, Education

4.7643 Ratings

🗓️ 21 December 2024

⏱️ 24 minutes

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0:00.0

Ladies, what do you wish self-proclaimed nice guys would understand?

0:05.0

Romantic comedies are nothing like real life, and using the tactics shown in them will only creep the object of your affections out, not win them over.

0:15.0

They should be treated just like fantasy movies because that's pretty much what they are.

0:19.0

Just a fantasy you enjoy seeing acted out for various

0:22.5

reasons. It's like how it's commonly accepted that adult flicks aren't real. Well, consider romantic

0:28.5

comedies, emotional adult movies, and treat them accordingly, please. Absolutely agreed. Do not

0:34.5

show up under my window at 2 a.m. Do not creep until you figure out which

0:38.3

hotel I'm staying at on my vacation and send miniature beanie babies that reminded you of me to the

0:43.3

hotel addressed to me. Do not awkwardly try to steal my clothing to put on your pillow and sleep with

0:48.4

because it smells like me. Do not leap between me and anyone I'm having a conversation with

0:53.7

to ensure that they're

0:54.8

not going to incapacitate me and commit the unspeakable act in the midst of a huge group of people,

1:00.3

and do not find out where I work and consistently leave love letters under my windshield for me

1:04.6

to find when I get off my shift. None of these things are acceptable or appreciated.

1:09.7

I'm not quoting movie sequences, folks.

1:11.6

I'm speaking from experience, and what these guys told me they considered romantic gestures,

1:18.0

although the showing up under the window and the love letter on the windshield ones are pretty 80s rom-com.

1:23.5

I think proclaiming yourself a nice guy is the problem in the first place.

1:27.3

People who are genuinely considerate and decent don't have to declare themselves honest and nice.

1:32.4

People know them to be so by their behavior.

1:35.2

Being nice, specifically as a means to impress women, as a means to an end, is not genuinely being nice.

1:41.4

It's kind of like the Game of Thrones, quote.

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