Well, they do say snitches get stitches.

So you would say, is there ever a time where you should actually snitch?

And this person wants to know, should they snitch or stay silent?

Says in this email says, my sister's 29 and married.

My 45-year-old stepfather has been married to my mom for over a decade.

And on New Year's Eve, everybody was drinking.

My mother and brother-in-law went to bed.

After they did, my stepfather came on to my sister.

She gave in to his advances and they got it out.

What?

My sister confessed everything to me days later saying that she doesn't know how

it even happened she was crying she said the guilt is eating her alive and i urged her to confess

everything to our mom but she said she can't risk her own marriage to the truth she just needed

to tell somebody.

She needed to relieve herself of the burden.

And I said, you know what, that's actually very selfish, because now I'm involved.

But she believes it's more selfish to unburden her conscience and ruin so many lives.

She swears she'll never put herself in that situation again.

So now here I am. I'm carrying the

secret that feels radioactive to me. And if my mom ever finds out I knew and stayed silent,

I don't know if she'd ever forgive me. But if I say something, multiple marriages will likely

end. Would you snitch or would you stay silent i am protecting a cheater

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