KVJ cuts. Okay, is this a makeup or a breakup for you? He keeps calling me by his

dead wife's name. Email we got here at the KVJ show said, my fiancee's called me by his late wife's name on multiple

occasions here lately.

Initially, I was understanding and I tried to empathize with his grief and the memories that he has of her but it keeps happening.

She's been gone for three years and we've been together for almost one.

The first 10 months of our relationship does never happen once. Now it's happened five times in the last month.

And we're going to be getting married in three months. So I wonder if maybe our wedding is

triggering this in his brain, then if it is what does it mean? Is he not

over her? Does he have guilt about marrying me? And is it best to just at least postpone

our wedding because of this? There's a part of me that

wonders if maybe he'll never get over her enough to fully give his heart away to anybody else.

No one I know has any experience in this. So will I always be the woman he

had to settle for because his one true love died? I don't want to be that for anybody.

I want to be somebody's first and one true love, not a companion they

settle for to live out their days. So what do you think? Do I do nothing, postpone the wedding,

or realize that I need to keep looking? Would that bother you? Is this a problem?

It sounds like something...

I think she's diagnosed it pretty well. That's what I would guess as well.

Yeah, in the beginning he was probably on his best behavior

in trying really hard not to say her name.

But now that he's more loose and comfortable with you,

maybe it just slips out because he said her name for so many years.

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