All right, wondering if you are a jerk or not. We will help you out with. All you have to do is just send us the email, mail at kvjshow.com. This person want to know if they're a jerk for not trying harder, it says. In their email, it says, am I a jerk for baking my sister a gray gender neutral cake for her gender reveal party.

Now, I had asked her to send me the info so I could prep the inside classic pink or with blue filling.

She says she's going to have somebody email me the info later, but that somebody never did email later.

So I tried texting my sister and calling her three different times over the

next week and hear nothing back. So I just go on about my life. Deadline comes. I still haven't

heard about the gender. Is it a boy or a girl? So I make the cake. I'm like, well, I'll make it gray.

Maybe I can slap some icing on it to make it go when I get there. It's gray on the outside, just a full-on cement vibes,

basically is what I gave them. Then the reveal day comes. They just grab the cake, they put

it right on the table, they remove the foil, cut right into it, and my sister looks and sees

that it's gray, and she gets all mad. Her husband's confused, too. People start murmuring

at this gender reveal party. And then she angrily pulls me aside and says, why would you make this cake gray?

And I said, look, I told you you needed to let me know what the gender was.

I don't know.

I had no idea.

No data to work with.

And I told her I wasn't about to guess or go full improv on somebody's baby cake.

But now my mom is on her side saying that I embarrassed her in front of family and all of her

friends and that she had a lot going on putting together the whole party.

And I should have tried harder to connect with her.

Do you think I am the one that was the jerk in this?

Real talk.

The person mad about the gray cake is awful.

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