All of these people in my life I think desert.

I'm feeling all pissed off and hurt.

I need to know if I am the jerk.

Oh, am I the jerk.

Got a single mom here want to know if she is a jerk for leaving a mess.

It says, I am a single mother with an almost four-year-old and an almost two-year-old.

And this last Saturday, I had taken my kids to a small

community water park and then we went to go get some pizza. Now, while we were eating, my kids

seemed to coordinate and team up on me. And they made quite a mess. My toddler was mashing pizza

on the table while my older one knocked over my drink on that mashed up pizza. Oh.

My baby then started crying while my older one fired up a temper tantrum.

All at the same time.

And it all had to do with this stuffed animal that they were fighting over at the pizza place.

I got flustered. I was embarrassed, so I just swept them both up and I got the heck out of there.

But on my way out, I looked back and saw what look like Armageddon.

What a disaster.

But I figured I was doing everybody a favor because we were just a hot mess.

But the place was destroyed and my girlfriend said, yeah, you can't do that.

Because there was chunks of pizza all over the table and the floor and it was all soaking up into my spilled drink.

Look, I hated to stick the staff with the mess that we left, but I thought sticking around to clean it up would actually have made things even worse for everyone.

Am I a jerk? Did I do this the right way?

I think you have to make some sort of effort to clean up a little bit.

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