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Other People's Problems

Kristin: Let yourself be excited about friendship

Other People's Problems

CBC

Society & Culture

4.7820 Ratings

🗓️ 22 June 2021

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Summary

Kristin recognizes she feels isolated and alone, at least in part because she’s kept people at a distance to protect herself from getting hurt. Dr. Hillary uses her own relationship with Kristin to model friendship and the excitement that can come from deep connection.

Transcript

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0:00.0

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0:06.1

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0:10.3

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0:17.2

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0:22.6

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0:28.1

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0:35.6

This is a CBC podcast.

0:38.6

Tell me about this thing that happens sometimes between our appointments where

0:42.6

feeling ambivalent about coming, you come, we have a really good appointment, lots of

0:48.6

stuff shifts, settles a week, sometimes two weeks go by.

0:53.2

What's happening to that cycle between appointments?

0:55.9

It's getting longer, like, I think. Today I was kind of like, I don't feel this need of like,

1:01.6

I've got to get there so that I can like get through the next two weeks. Yeah. That didn't really

1:07.8

happen this time. So that's good. On the other side of that, it's like, I feel like invisible in a way, right?

1:21.3

Hi, I'm Hilary McBride and this is other people's problems.

1:29.2

Here's a therapy session with a client we're calling Kristen.

1:37.9

For so much of Kristen's life, there has been the experience of feeling isolated or lonely. And as Kristen and I have been working together,

1:47.0

we've been trying to tease out what are the spaces where she's actually been lonely and

1:52.7

misunderstood? And what are the spaces in her life where she's kept herself alone? Where she has felt

2:00.0

like she needed to be on the inside because it was too

2:02.4

scary to be in friendship or in vulnerability with someone else. What you hear in this audio

2:09.4

is something that's very characteristic of my style of doing therapy. We're using what's

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