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Hot and Bothered

Kissing Jessica Stein

Hot and Bothered

Not Sorry Productions

Society & Culture, Feminism, Books, Relationships, Arts, Intersectionality

4.81.1K Ratings

🗓️ 12 August 2025

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

Vanessa Zoltan and Hannah McGregor are joined by Marcelle Kosman in a literary New York apartment to record this week’s episode of Hot and Bothered, all about Kissing Jessica Stein.


This week we discuss sex drives, compulsive heterosexuality, and what compromises you can make in partnership.


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0:00.0

Have you ever heard the phrase, let me marinate on that?

0:05.4

Well, that phrase came to you straight from the 2001 indie rom-com, kissing Jessica Stein.

0:13.1

The film was written by the co-stars of the film, Jennifer Westfeldt and Heather Jurgensen.

0:19.8

It was their first ever screenplay, produced on a meager $1 million budget and sometimes shot in Friends Apartments.

0:28.1

Like many of the movies were covering in this mini-season, it is now considered a cult classic.

0:34.4

The movie stars Jennifer and Heather as Jessica and Helen. They're two New Yorkers in

0:40.5

their 20s exploring their first queer relationship. Jessica is a copywriter at a newspaper.

0:46.7

She's uptight, neurotic, and unlucky in love. She's secretly a passionate and talented painter,

0:53.7

but isn't trying to make that anything other than her hobby.

0:57.7

So she works alongside her ex-boyfriend, now boss, Josh, played by Scott Cohen of Max Medina Gilmore Girls fame,

1:06.8

and her pregnant best friend, Joan, played with unstoppable charm by Jackie Hoffman.

1:14.9

Helen is more of a free spirit than Jessica.

1:18.9

She works at an art gallery, she does yoga, and she's casually sleeping with three men at the same time.

1:25.8

But she's bored by her life. And so she thinks, why not

1:30.6

try dating women? I just think it's time, you know? She places a classified ad, quoting Rilka.

1:38.2

She screens a lot of calls from women she's not interested in while meditating. Jessica sees Helen's ad after a string of bad dates.

1:48.1

She also has recently gotten the news of her brother's engagement

1:51.3

and been publicly humiliated by her ex-boyfriend slash current boss Josh at a dinner party.

1:57.7

I don't think the problem is with these poor men, these freaks and morons, as you put it.

2:01.6

I think the problem is with you.

2:04.1

She loves the Rilke quote.

2:07.1

Impulsively, she responds to the ad and ends up on a date with Helen,

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