Kirk's Panic Attack and Other Things
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
4.5 • 1.3K Ratings
🗓️ 23 June 2023
⏱️ 64 minutes
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00:00 Intro
01:00 Working with polyamorous couples
01:47 Approaching intersecting identities
04:24 How has Dr. Kirk's hairstyle evolved?
08:27 Explaining an absent parent to a child
11:39 Law of attraction
13:36 Psychedelics in therapy
15:19 Toxic vs. general masculinity
15:46 Coping with anxiety in lessons
20:06 Dr. Kirk's wedding band & panic attack
30:55 Tying toxicity to gender
32:55 The future impact of AI
35:59 Avoiding responsibility
40:37 Studying to be a prepared therapist
47:07 How is suffering fair?
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June 23, 2023
The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®
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| 0:00.0 | Hey, deserve listeners. Recently I did a live Q&A on YouTube and I don't normally do this, |
| 0:06.0 | but there were a few segments where I was talking and I thought that I would share it with y'all |
| 0:12.4 | on the audio podcast feed because I was like, oh, you know, I should probably tell this story |
| 0:18.0 | on the audio podcast. And I thought, well, I'm probably not going to be able to pull it off |
| 0:22.9 | spontaneously like I did during the live stream. So I thought I would do that. So the Q&A on YouTube |
| 0:30.0 | was an hour to half and I spent a lot of time editing out all the boring bits in the dead |
| 0:36.2 | air space. And I got it down to about 45 minutes, which tells you how meandering I am without |
| 0:44.1 | preparation and when I'm asked to just speak off the top of my head. So there's that. And usually |
| 0:50.4 | the episodes are about an hour or more. So I thought at the end of this episode, I would also |
| 0:55.9 | answer a few of your questions. So let's get to that live stream. How do you perform couples |
| 1:00.4 | counseling on polyamorous couples where a lot of theories come from a monogamous framework? |
| 1:07.2 | A lot of the models, if not all of them, are focused on monogamous couples often heterosexual couples. |
| 1:13.3 | So how do you use the different theories with polyamorous couples? To me, there's really no |
| 1:19.8 | adjustment because when it comes to attachment, it's the same. There's nothing in attachment theory |
| 1:24.8 | that says that you have to attach to only one romantic partner. Any of the differentiation, |
| 1:30.5 | boidian concepts, any of the gestalt or expressive or behavioral techniques, cognitive techniques, |
| 1:37.0 | narrative techniques, systemic techniques. I've never even thought about that question, |
| 1:41.0 | which is an interesting question, but it's never been a problem for me. |
| 1:45.9 | Evelyn, good morning. How do you recommend couples approach to inner |
| 1:50.3 | secting identities? I recently had a relationship and because my partner, who was trans, |
| 1:54.6 | was feeding into a lot of harmful stereotypes about what it means to be fem. |
| 2:02.7 | Listening to people, when people misunderstand each other, |
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