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Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
4.5 • 1.3K Ratings
🗓️ 15 April 2024
⏱️ 116 minutes
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00:00 How do we identify our needs?
04:10 Where does the pleasure for sadists come from?
08:57 Is it possible to treat sadists?
14:07 OPP
18:10 Can my therapist also be my supervisor?
21:52 Is it weird to not experience existential anxiety?
28:42 How can I prepare for grad school?
34:37 OPP2
35:49 Developing narcissism
46:03 Completist listening of PiS
49:09 Why do people self-diagnose?
56:41 On the fence about having children
59:00 How can I navigate therapy when my therapist has cancer?
1:01:23 Am I creating a communication barrier?
1:12:32 Dr. Kirk takes psychology scales
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April 15, 2024
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| 0:00.0 | Hey Deservant Listeners, I thought I would clean the slate by going through the Google Doc that has all of your emails |
| 0:08.0 | and I thought I would answer as many as I could and as quickly as I can. This first email is from anonymous patron. She says, |
| 0:17.6 | Can you make a step-by-step guide to identifying our needs individually and relationally. |
| 0:25.0 | So a step by step guide to identifying our needs individually and relationally. |
| 0:31.0 | Assume by relationally you mean like our needs for attachment and I can't |
| 0:36.0 | really provide a step-by-step guide because it's too complicated and it doesn't really follow |
| 0:42.0 | steps because you're constantly bouncing around to different things that you would need to work on and focus on. |
| 0:48.5 | The foundation of knowing our needs for our self and for attachments, |
| 0:55.0 | which I'm just going to say as a broad label our needs, |
| 0:59.0 | is we have to know what we're feeling, |
| 1:02.0 | we have to know our emotions, and we have to have a pretty good grasp on our emotions, |
| 1:07.0 | even when we're not paying attention to them, because we don't usually spend time focusing on how we're feeling and what our emotions are and turning inward. |
| 1:18.0 | So we have to be so good at recognizing our emotional state and our urges and our needs, our feelings that we |
| 1:27.2 | notice them even without us focusing on them, right? I guess you could say that if you're hungry, you don't have to focus on whether |
| 1:37.4 | or not you're hungry to notice that you're hungry, right? Or you don't have to focus on the fact that you're exhausted because that |
| 1:47.3 | feeling will become obvious to you it will demand attention. |
| 1:53.0 | Well, a lot of our needs day to day do not have that kind of noticeable emotional, |
| 2:01.0 | you know, rising above that threshold. |
| 2:03.7 | Or we don't pay attention to it enough or something. |
| 2:06.5 | Or we're bad at interpreting it, or we suppress it, |
| 2:09.0 | or we shame ourselves for it. |
| 2:10.5 | So it's very important that we have a very good connection with our self, with our |
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