Kirk and Humberto Fight and Other Things
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
4.5 • 1.3K Ratings
🗓️ 15 May 2023
⏱️ 94 minutes
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May 15, 2023
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| 0:00.0 | So, Burdo, usually with the other co-hosts, we will answer emails because the emails are clinical |
| 0:07.0 | with Bob and with Rebecca. But with you, we usually do other things, which I enjoy. I do like to |
| 0:12.9 | get into specific topics. That sort of stuff. Very technical things like that. But I thought today, |
| 0:19.7 | we would actually read some emails because some of them, I think, actually apply to you. What do you |
| 0:24.0 | say? Let's do it. This is the Psychology and Seattle podcast in your host, Dr. Kirk Honda, |
| 0:27.8 | a therapist and a professor. My name is Umberto Castañeda and I design upside down cups. |
| 0:32.8 | So email, an honest listener, she says, I came across an article from the Guardian called, |
| 0:38.1 | I'm 25 years old and won't have sex until I'm married. Why can't I get a man? Well, without |
| 0:44.3 | reading the article, I went straight to the comments. By the way, have you ever done that before? |
| 0:47.4 | Yeah. Just go, why do you do that? Like, not getting, not having sex till you're married? |
| 0:52.8 | No, no, no, going straight to the comments. Oh, yeah, yeah. No, I do that a lot of times with videos. |
| 0:57.9 | On YouTube, like where I'm like, because sometimes I click on the video knowing full well |
| 1:03.2 | what the topic is and I'm already rage, rage a holloking. And so I go straight to the comments |
| 1:08.1 | because what I'm hoping is that I'm not insane and that immediately I'll find comments that |
| 1:12.5 | agree with my position. I think that that's a problem because for me as a content provider, |
| 1:17.8 | of course it is. I absolutely will recognize a mob of people who did not listen to the episode |
| 1:26.2 | and are just reactive. I'm not proud of it. I'm not proud of it. I think it's a bad thing. |
| 1:29.6 | Now, to be fair though, I will, I don't comment if I haven't seen that thing. Yeah, good. |
| 1:35.3 | But I do go to the comments, but you will take in the comments as if they, yes, and conclude |
| 1:43.4 | on the content based on that, which I think is a huge problem. Yeah. So without reading the article, |
| 1:48.2 | I went straight to comments. And again, the article was, I'm 25 and what have sex until I'm married. |
| 1:53.6 | Why can't I get a man? The people commenting were extremely negative, |
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