Kinky Raves, Sex Stories and Censorship Hell with Lily Eff

Come Curious

Comedy, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.7 • 833 Ratings

🗓️ 26 February 2026

⏱️ 54 minutes

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What actually happens at a queer kinky rave? 👀🔥 This week, Reed is joined by Lily Eff - co-founder of Quench, one of London's hottest queer kinky raves and play party communities. Tune in for wild sex party stories (including a 21-person orgy…) and how Lily is building inclusive, intentional kink spaces that feel like HOME. They dive deep into the emotional reality of exploring fantasies IRL, boundaries, consent, and what to do when things don’t go to plan. Plus, Lily shares her BEST advice for anyone curious about going to a kinky or queer party for the first time. From nerves to outfits to aftercare, we’ve got you covered. Whether you’re kinky, curious, or just nosy (we see you), this episode is honest, funny, vulnerable, and seriously eye-opening. 👇 Tell us in the comments: Would you ever go to a sex party? What would you want to know first? This episode is sponsored by Erika Lust - mastermind behind ethical, cinematic adult films. Use our spicy discount code SPICY45 to get 45% off their platform - erikalust.com Follow Lily: IG: @lilyeff.uncensored and @quench.hq Grab you ticket for their upcoming event: 20th March You can join us over on Patreon to WATCH the full episode and see ALL the juicy moments ⁠⁠available for members only⁠⁠. Follow up on IG @comecurious Follow @reedamberx Follow @florencebark Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:36.9	You're listening to Come Curious.
0:40.0	Kinky raves, sexy stories and censorship hell.
0:46.3	Hello, curious fuckers.
0:48.7	Oh, we ready for this episode.
0:51.4	I'm so fucking excited to have my girl Lillian, who is the master of quench parties,
0:58.7	one of the most coolest kink, safe, full of expression, very, very inclusive parties that you
1:05.7	just need to go to. They're always in London. And we're going to have an amazing talk. I actually can't wait.
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