Kink & Casual Sex w/ Justin Lehmiller

Sex With Emily

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.2 • 6.7K Ratings

🗓️ 11 September 2021

⏱️ 57 minutes

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Summary

Are you suddenly feeling a little...kinkier? According to my guest, social psychologist, and Kinsey Institute researcher Justin Lehmiller, a lot of us are ready to sex-periment right now. Justin shares fascinating sex research from the COVID era, the sex communication practices heterosexual individuals can learn from the LGBTQ+ community, and how to make casual sex better for women. (Spoiler alert: emphasize her pleasure.)

We also unpack the Kinsey Scale and why sexuality is so freaking fluid, why threesomes are such a popular fantasy, and what our porn preferences reveal (and don’t reveal) about us. Finally, we talk about sex education as it’s practiced in The Netherlands, and give you some incredibly useful tools for talking to your kids about sex (because it’s really important!).

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0:00.0	My name is Donia, I moved to Manchester in 2010.
0:03.4	I came from Afghanistan.
0:04.9	The first school that was a bit tough, I had no friends,
0:07.2	couldn't speak English and felt a bit left out.
0:09.6	My high school teacher was very supportive.
0:12.0	She matched me up with friends that spoke the same language as me.
0:15.5	Having friends gave me a lot of confidence.
0:17.6	I felt like I'm not being left out.
0:20.6	Thinking about teaching,
0:22.5	to get advice on your application funding and courses,
0:26.2	search gets into teaching events.
0:30.3	One of the key things we saw in that research was that,
0:41.5	for the people who managed after that year to still be on good terms
0:44.8	with their friends with benefit,
0:46.3	they had the communication in the beginning.
0:48.3	They set the ground rules,
0:50.0	got on the same page about what their expectations were,
0:52.3	what is this and what isn't this.
0:55.0	You're listening to Sex with Emily.
0:59.3	I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate
1:03.8	the conversation around sex.
1:05.9	So are you suddenly feeling a little kinkier?
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