In this episode, how to raise kind kids. And to truly understand kindness, Anya and I visited a mother who's lived through every parent's worst nightmare.

And it changed the whole focus of her life. There are only two kinds of people in the world. Good people and good people in pain. Her name is Scarlett

Lewis. And before we met her, Corey, I have to confess that I wasn't necessarily all that

impressed with kindness as an idea. I mean... You're a kindness skeptic? Well, I don't want to say

skeptic, but just let's say that kindness is like a slogan

that's on a pillow that I would never have on my couch. But that really, really changed for me

when we travel to rural Connecticut to spend some time with Scarlett. I've lived on this farm

for 20 years before the two boys.

And it's really my dream place.

Scarlett named this place Wild Rose Farm.

There are a few chickens clucking in a wire coop behind a muddy pasture where there's also a horse.

This is one of the oldest barns in Fairfield County.

Really?

Yeah, the house is 1740, so older than the United States of America.

We get there in time to watch her feed the animals, including her constant companions,

Three dogs, Remington, Rocky, and Olive.

I think he thought that the mic was a dog.

Watch out.

So Scarlett leaves us inside the house, and I remember we took our jackets off in the mudroom,

and hanging there was a first-grader's black and blue ski jacket.

And Scarlett stopped, and she pulled out a pair of these funny-looking teeth out of the pocket, joke teeth.

I always say that he wore these little teeth because he was such a goofball to school every day.

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