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Calm Parenting Podcast

Kids Who Appear Lazy, Blame Others, Won’t Accept Responsibility, Pick On Siblings, Act Aggressively? 5 Ways To Help Over Holidays. #547

Calm Parenting Podcast

Kirk Martin

Relationships, Education, Parenting, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Kids & Family

4.71.4K Ratings

🗓️ 24 December 2025

⏱️ 24 minutes

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Summary

Do you have kids who appear lazy in school, refuse to accept responsibility and blame others, won’t push through when things get hard, pick on siblings, act out aggressively or self-sabotage? Most of these behaviors stem from a lack of confidence and motivation. I give you five concrete ideas and scripts to use during the holiday break to change these behaviors quickly. **This is the FINAL week of our Christmas Sale. Take advantage of the lowest prices of the year and give the gift of CALM to your family. Visit https://celebratecalm.com/christmas-clearance/ to learn more. Email Casey@CelebrateCalm.com with any questions.** 


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So do you have kids who appear lazy in school who pick on their siblings?

0:46.2

They refuse to accept responsibility.

0:47.4

They blame others.

0:49.7

Won't push through when things get hard.

0:53.2

Sometimes they act out aggressively or even self-sabotage.

0:55.6

You're not alone. And I want you to know most of these behaviors are not even behavior issues. They are confidence and motivation issues.

1:03.7

So how can we change this? I want to give you five ideas that you can begin implementing over

1:10.0

the holiday break. So that is what we're going

1:12.3

to discuss on today's Christmas episode of the Calm Parenting Podcast. So welcome, this is Kirk Martin.

1:17.3

You can find us in our Christmas sale at Celebrate Calm.com. So I mentioned that, that most of these

1:23.4

behavior issues, they don't really have anything to do with behavior. Internally, they're about a

1:29.9

child who doesn't have confidence or motivation. So think about this. Kids who feel kind of like

1:35.7

the black sheep in the family, they're always in trouble. Well, they're naturally going to take out

1:40.8

their resentment on the good sibling that they can't measure up against.

1:46.1

It's not a sibling issue. That's a confidence issue. Kids who struggle in school and shut

1:51.5

down. They're not usually lazy kids. They're just not motivated. See, those are two different things.

1:58.3

Because you've seen this. When your child is motivated and it's usually

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