Kids Are NOT Supposed To Be Immediately Obedient
Calm Parenting Podcast
Kirk Martin
4.7 • 1.4K Ratings
🗓️ 4 February 2024
⏱️ 36 minutes
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Kids Are NOT Supposed To Be Immediately Obedient
How many of you have been told kids are supposed to be immediately obedient? Maybe you were raised with that awful little saying, “Obey right away, all the way, with a happy heart.” And now you have a strong-willed child who I can guarantee will NEVER listen the first time. You will judged and question yourself, as if you are doing something wrong. I want to show you a different and better way to raise a curious, loving, and responsible child.
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| 1:02.5 | off. How many of you have been told that kids are supposed to be immediately obedient? Or maybe |
| 1:09.6 | you were raised with that awful little saying, |
| 1:11.7 | obey right away, all the way, with a happy heart. And now you have a strong will child who I can |
| 1:17.0 | guarantee will never listen the first time. And you're going to be judge. You're going to question |
| 1:22.9 | yourself as if you are doing something wrong. And I want to show you a different way. That is what we are going to discuss on today's episode of the Calm Parenting Podcast. So welcome. This is Kirk Martin, founder of Celebrate Calm.com. Find us at Celebrate Calm.com. If you need help, reach out to our very strong-willed son, Casey, C-A-S-C-E-Y, at Celebrolm.com. Tell us about your family. Age of the kids, what do |
| 1:45.3 | they struggle with? We get together as a family. We discuss it. We reply back to you personally, |
| 1:49.4 | and very specifically, because that's our mission to help you out. So this idea of first-time |
| 1:55.0 | obedience is especially prevalent in conservative and religious circles. It is deeply ingrained. And I think it's wrong, |
| 2:03.6 | it's harmful, it's against human nature, it isn't remotely even scriptural, it ultimately won't work, |
| 2:11.2 | and it will ruin your relationship with your strong will child. And here are some additional |
| 2:16.5 | wonderful benefits of pursuing this path. |
| 2:19.3 | It will cause dissension in your marriage. |
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