After four abortions, Distara finally learned the truth.

I heard it from focus on the family and they were talking about pro-life being a baby, a human

being in your stomach.

And I'm like, wow, that's pro life.

I'm Jim Daly.

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When our first child came along it was very slash marriage and our relationship wasn't deeply impacted like it was when number two came along.

And then all bets were off.

It was like, we can't be spontaneous at all ever again. This is John Fuller along with Greg and Aaron Smalley and to the Smalleys. What kind of surprised you about kids and your relationship.

I would say that our first one was so laid back and just super easy.

We were like, we've got this parenting thing down.

And it was the same for us.

Number two came along and we were like what just happened.

So we were we were cruising along pretty good with the first one.

Well if you're newly married or if you've had kids you're going to be able to relate I think to

what Pam and Bill Farrell are going to share today. They've been going through

the acrostic time T-I-M-E to help us better understand how much time healthy couples need to be spending together

with or without kids.

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