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Keeping Secrets: Why Gentlemen Don’t Kiss & Tell

Coach Corey Wayne

Coach Corey Wayne

Relationships, Society & Culture

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🗓️ 8 June 2023

⏱️ 23 minutes

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Summary

Why men should keep some secrets and not treat their women like their priest or therapist.


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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne, and this is my video coaching newsletter, and the topic of today's

0:05.5

newsletter is going to be Keeping Secrets, Why Gentlemen Don't Kiss and Tell.

0:12.3

Well, I've got an email this particular guy, I think he's in his 30s, and he's dating a girl

0:17.2

he really cares about, who's like 23, and he's 36 she's 23 so there's a 13 year age

0:24.5

difference she can't comes from a good family she's kind of young naive inexperienced she really

0:30.4

digs them and about seven years ago he's got like this dark secret that he fears that if he shares it or when he shares it with his girlfriend, because she's really beautiful, she's young, she gets hit on a lot, that she's just going to leave him for another dude.

0:49.7

So obviously he's not in a good place.

0:51.4

He's driven by fear.

0:53.6

And quite frankly, it's a bunch of irrational

0:55.6

fears. And as I talk about in 3% man, gentlemen, don't kiss and tell. You shouldn't sit there

1:02.6

and talk about every girl you've ever slept with, every girl you've dated, every girlfriend you've

1:06.4

ever had, everything that's bad that happened in your life, especially when you first start dating somebody,

1:13.3

because the idea is if it's not going to make you look more attractive and masculine and awesome in her eyes,

1:19.7

she doesn't need to know it.

1:21.2

Plus, if you get into an argument or she gets pissed at you, then she's going to throw some of that stuff back in your

1:28.8

face. So why give ammunition to somebody who potentially will turn around and use it on you?

1:36.9

And it's just whether it's talking about body counts. I mean, obviously you want to know a little

1:41.4

bit of background about the girl that you're dating, but the idea is you don't want to turn your girl into your priest or your therapist.

1:49.8

She's supposed to be your teammate and your lover.

1:52.4

If you've got problems, if you got issues, it's much better to go share those with your guy friends

1:58.4

and have a few beers or talk to your therapist or whatever.

2:01.6

But don't dump all of your problems onto your girl and tell her that you don't know how

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