Keeping It On The DL with Topher Taylor

Come Curious

Sexuality, Comedy, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.7 • 783 Ratings

🗓️ 29 May 2025

⏱️ 70 minutes

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TW: Discussion of transphobia, homophobia and language that could be distressing for some listeners. This week on Come Curious, Florence and Reed are joined by award-winning sex educator and writer, Topher Taylor to talk all things DL guys- men who identify as straight but have sex with men. Together they answer your questions, listen to your stories and unpack desire, secrecy, queerness, kink, and all the complexities that come along with it. Nothing’s off-limits. To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https:/!www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	Curious fuckers, this is a trigger warning for this episode. There is transphobia talk and homophobia talk and
0:06.9	some harsh words. So just be aware as you're listening. If you're feeling extra sensitive,
0:12.9	maybe save this episode for another time.
0:18.7	Oh my God. You're listening to Come Curious.
0:23.6	Dudes on the down low.
0:26.6	Dude.
0:27.6	Dude.
0:28.6	Dude.
0:29.6	Dude.
0:31.6	Dude.
0:32.6	Dude.
0:34.6	So very excited that we're getting Tofa Taylor on the podcast today to talk about the subject that I don't think we've ever broached.
0:44.3	Yeah, I'm really excited about this one because you hear a lot about this and I keep hearing and seeing a lot about dudes on the down low, on the DL.
0:59.4	So yeah, I can't wait to like really go in deep with this with Tofer.
1:00.4	Yeah.
1:05.0	Tofa was at the awards as well and he won an award too, which is really cool. Amazing. Very, very cool, yeah. Journalist of the Year, was it?
1:08.6	Yes, Journalist of the Year, Sexual Freedom Awards.
1:11.1	All right.
1:12.6	Oh, I had like a really fun email that I got this morning.
1:17.6	Oh yeah.
1:17.8	My film Dark Desert Highway has been selected for the Berlin Porn Film Festival.
1:24.1	Oh my God, amazing.
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