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Please listen with an open heart, and as always, I welcome your polite, engaged feedback,

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Welcome to Query.

Whoopsie Daisy.

Well, where I was came here for the first time in my life I have made a mistake.

There was an episode of Brandy Carlyle of not an episode of Brandy Carlyle.

An episode of this show where I did an interview with Brandy Carlyle,

and there was a communication snafu, we didn't know that she actually has embargoed interviews

for a couple weeks. So that interview, don't worry, it will be back in just a few weeks.

Also, if you already listened to it, congrats you're from the future.

Your job is to spread information about how good that interview was to other people on the planet.

So a couple more weeks we'll hear again from Brandy Carlyle.

What a freaking get. Can't believe we got her.

Ugh, such a good chat.

Today, now Sierra and I were trying to figure out what to do.

What do we do?

Because we don't have an episode for this week because that was the, we made a mistake.

Anyway, Sierra said, what about, you know, last year on this time, you were talking to Katie,

and you were going into, quarantine had just started.

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