Kathy & Susan: Looksmaxxing and Men Who Are Great on Paper | Golden Hour
Bachelor Happy Hour
iHeartPodcasts and Warner Bros
3.9 • 15.1K Ratings
🗓️ 15 May 2026
⏱️ 34 minutes
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Today on “Golden Hour,” we’re back diving into our Golden Hotline, where we answer some of your questions. Today’s write-ins are all about men who are great in theory but don’t exactly match up IRL. When is it time to move on, or can you ask for more? Then, Kathy and Susan are back for “Grandma Googles It!” Are they in the know enough to keep up with “looksmaxxing” and “floodlighting”? Tune in to find out and be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode.
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| 0:00.0 | This is an I-Heart podcast. |
| 0:02.6 | Guaranteed Human. |
| 0:11.7 | Hey, everyone. |
| 0:13.0 | We're back for part two with more fun with Susan and me, so let's get right back into it. |
| 0:19.7 | All right. |
| 0:20.7 | Let's get off of reality TV and get on to our |
| 0:24.0 | golden hotline where each week we answer questions from listeners and we give them our expert |
| 0:30.0 | golden advice. Okay, Susan, start us off here. Okay. I've been dating this guy for about four months |
| 0:37.2 | and on paper he's everything I've been looking this guy for about four months, and on paper, he's everything I've been looking |
| 0:40.5 | for. |
| 0:41.3 | Stable jobs, super kind, treats me well, but I've noticed that I'm the one initiating almost |
| 0:48.9 | everything. |
| 0:50.1 | If I don't text first, we don't talk. |
| 0:53.3 | If I don't suggest plans, we don't talk. If I don't suggest plans, we don't see each other. |
| 1:00.1 | When we are together, he's fully present and affectionate, which is what's confusing me. |
| 1:06.2 | Is this just his personality? |
| 1:08.3 | Or am I ignoring a bigger issue where I'm doing all the emotional |
| 1:13.8 | labor? Laura from New York City. What do you think, Susan? I think he's just slow and maybe |
| 1:21.5 | doesn't know how to do it. I mean, I always, I want to see the positive in something before the negative. |
| 1:29.2 | Like when he's there, he's fully present, he's affectionate. |
| 1:33.3 | She's getting confused because she's doing all the planning. |
| 1:36.7 | Some guys just aren't good planners. |
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