Kate & The Destabilizing Narcissistic Abuser - Domestic Violence, Narcissist Abuse, Coercive Control

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

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🗓️ 6 November 2023

⏱️ 84 minutes

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Summary

Kate met her abuser at a musical jam, and they hit it off instantly. The relationship progressed quickly, with Kate finding herself at her abuser's home five days a week. From there, Kate's abuser hijacked her time, manipulating her into self-isolation, and once that was accomplished, he began to destabilize her in any way he could. It's a story of time control, minimization, denial, blame, guilt, animal abuse, child abuse, child sexual abuse, people pleasing, intimidation, support, destabilization, addiction, rage, boundaries, and trauma binds. *** CONTENT WARNING - This episode discusses Child Abuse, Child Sexual Abuse, and Animal Abuse. *** If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com To help out our podcast, please fill out our listener survey, click here. Thank you to our sponsor FACTOR. To get delicious fresh healthy meals delivered to your door and ready in 2 minutes, go to Factor at https://www.factormeals.com/nap50 and use promo code NAP50 to get 50% off. Thank you to our sponsor BETTERHELP. If you need online counseling from anywhere in the world, please do go to https://www.betterhelp.com/nap Get started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:24.9	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talk with an abuse survivor named Kate,
0:30.7	and Kate was in a controlling relationship with a destabilizing abuse of narcissist.
0:35.9	It's a story of people-pleasing, trauma bonds, boundaries,
0:40.3	minimization, rage, intimidation, and blame. Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse, everyone.
1:07.3	I am Brandon Chadwick, and with me today we have Kate. How are you? I'm pretty good.
1:15.0	Well, thank you, Kate, for being here. And if you want to be a guest like Kate is today,
1:20.6	please do go to our website at Narcissistapocalypse.com. Top of the page, there's a button that says
1:25.2	guest form. When you click on that button, it takes you to our
1:28.2	guest form page. There, you can read all of our instructions and either send us an email at
1:32.3	Narcissist Apocalypse at gmail.com or fill our guest form and press to submit button. And please
1:37.2	do send it in the format that we ask for. And today there is a content warning for this episode as we do discuss childhood sexual abuse,
1:47.4	childhood sexual assault. As well in the episode, we also do discuss animal abuse. And for the
1:54.7	animal abuse part, you will have this warning that happens right before it. So that is the content warning for this episode.
2:04.1	And today you're going to hear Kate's story. And I've known Kate for a very long time. Kate
2:10.0	is a part of our support group. And I've seen Kate from the beginning of when she came into
2:16.4	the group and have watched her
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