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LEAVE YOUR MARK: Freshly Brewed Career Advice with Aliza Licht

Kate Doerge on Choosing Joy and Positivity Even in the Face of Tragedy

LEAVE YOUR MARK: Freshly Brewed Career Advice with Aliza Licht

Aliza Licht

Business, Careers

5.0585 Ratings

🗓️ 10 September 2023

⏱️ 38 minutes

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Summary

After decades in marketing and communications and a new role as an operating partner at Traub, Kate Doerge never anticipated that she would also become a CEO. This new job, however, is the one her whole career has prepared her for and the one she was meant to do.  When Kate's daughter Penny rolled off the bed at four months old, what seemed like a typical tibia fracture uncovered a diagnosis called Neurofibromatosis, also known as NF. One out of 300,000 kids is diagnosed with NF. This genetic disorder causes tumors to grow on nerve pathways anywhere in the body. At the time, doctors encouraged them to focus on healing the leg and not google NF.  As parents, they were determined to make sure Penny lived a big, beautiful life. Even though she had her first surgery at 15 months old and was in a body cast for four months, she would commando crawl across the room in her bright pink cast bedazzled with gemstones. Nothing stopped Penny. Throughout her life, Penny was never defined by her ailments. She also didn't hide from them. She knew she was different from most people but never referred to it. Over her short years, Penny endured seven orthopedic surgeries and 11 brain surgeries. She never felt sorry for herself. Penny lived as a typical social and funny teenage girl with a beautiful smile and someone who was always the life of the party. Sadly, NF took Penny at 16.  Within days of Penny's passing, Penny's Flight was launched in celebration of the extraordinary life of Penny Doerge and the qualities she personified — joy, artistic expression, and humor — while bravely living with Neurofibromatosis (NF) since infancy. The Foundation's mission is to make much-needed advances in medical research on Neurofibromatosis and related disorders — with a lasting impact on altering the course of this disease. There is no cure for NF, and research around the disease remains underfunded despite being one of the most common genetic disorders in the United States.  Through Penny's story and bright light, the Foundation aims to expand knowledge around NF while inspiring others to find beauty in imperfection, positivity in the face of challenge, and faith over fear. In less than a year, they have raised over $3 million for Penny's Flight, and this is just the beginning.  There is no greater tragedy than losing a child. Still, Kate Doerge and her husband, Chad Doerge, made a choice: to choose joy and positivity and focus on spreading their daughter Penny's light because living life with joy and optimism came naturally for Penny. In this episode, Kate shares how she and Chad handle adversity and how their mentality of choosing joy and positivity has led them. Kate shares the steps they took to build this Foundation in a few days and how anyone can model this mindset to push through even the most tragic times. As Kate says, it's not about your lifespan but your wingspan. Penny always spread her wings and shined her light. This episode is about strength, resilience, and the power of positivity, everything Penny embodied. Penny lived her life's purpose and will continue to inspire others.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hi, this is Alisa Likt, and this is Leave Your Mark the podcast, where I brew fresh career advice with some of my most inspiring and successful friends.

0:09.6

It's professional advice that you can action immediately, whether you're just starting out in your career or well on your way.

0:16.5

With a massive to-do list and a large cup of coffee, I promise that you can get it all done

0:21.7

and still have time to post about it.

0:26.2

I am so excited to welcome my friend Kate Durgey back to leave your mark.

0:31.3

For those of you who missed her first episode, I highly recommend that you listen to it.

0:36.4

She is a principal at Kate Durgey Consulting

0:39.0

and also operating partner at Troub and now CEO of Penny's Flight Foundation. And we are here today,

0:49.6

Kate, because you and your husband, Chad, have done the most inspiring jaw-dropping job in creating

0:58.9

Penny's Flight Foundation, in memory and celebration of your daughter Penny.

1:04.3

And you and I have so much history together through fashion, but also through hospital for

1:09.5

special surgery.

1:10.2

And I have remembered and been through and experienced sort of like all your path along the way.

1:19.4

And I would love you to talk a little bit first and foremost about your mentality because I think that,

1:27.4

you know, listen, you live through a tragedy.

1:31.9

You know, you've lost your child.

1:33.9

But I have never seen, and by the way, every single person who knows you,

1:39.1

and I've never seen more people just completely in awe of somebody, your strength, your resilience,

1:47.1

your positivity, like you need to bottle it and sell it and hopefully you can spread it

1:53.0

today and leave your mark. But I would love you to talk a little bit about, first and foremost,

1:57.7

your mentality and your mindset, because you have lived through many,

2:02.2

many years of trials and tribulations of penny surgeries. So give everyone a little background,

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