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I saw this tweet yesterday from a guy posting what his friend put in their group chat.

The tweet is, one of my friends drew eight-figure net worth, mid-30s, handsome, sharing his feelings in the group chat tonight, trying to reel him back in, but he's got some good points.

Thoughts? And then this is the text in the group chat. The friend writes, I hate talking about TV shows, I hate getting a drink, I hate waiting for them to arrive. I hate getting

canceled on. I hate thinking maybe she's different. I hate wanting to be nice knowing she's

banged a guy who treats her like shit. I hate pretending she has something she can teach me. I hate

holding in my farts when she's over. I hate listening to her political feelings, not her thoughts. I hate having

to make every single move or decision while being judged by someone who has nothing to offer me.

Okay. A lot of the comments to this said that it sounded like the guy just hates women. And maybe

that's true. I want to give him the benefit of the doubt and say it sounds like

he's dating the absolute wrong women for himself. Just the idea that she has nothing to teach him

and nothing to offer him. If that's true, it's really on him because he's dating the completely

wrong type of woman. For men, they get hung up on looks,

but not just, oh, is she pretty? She has to be beyond pretty. She has to be extremely beautiful,

an eight or above, even if the guy is not an eight himself. So there are going to be sacrifices,

and the sacrifice for a lot of men is they end up dating

these dimmer women who, yes, maybe have nothing to teach them. Again, this is all giving him the

benefit of the doubt that he's not just a raging narcissist. But looks are not the same as attraction,

and what this guy is discovering is that while he may like the way these women look,

he ultimately does not find them attractive.

That's the main takeaway men should have.

Treat looks as part of a package.

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