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about why. So I'm going to tell you the story of the day where I thought to myself, maybe I don't

want to do this anymore. My husband and I had four kids. We both worked full time. We had been

together for 16 years at this point. We've been together since high school. And on paper, I have

an amazing husband. He is incredibly supportive. He's kind. He's

loyal. He's a great dad. He's very hands on. He's an active participant. He's always present.

Like, on paper, what else could I ask for? But in reality, I love how she goes, he's loving, he's

kind, he's supportive. He's a great dad. But in reality, sorry what?

Is that not reality?

Because I think that is reality, actually.

So what she's doing here is she's completely downplaying all of the amazing qualities that this man brings to the table and acting like that's not reality.

Supportive, kind, loyal, great dad.

These are qualities that most women out there are searching for desperately. And she just reels them off

like a shopping list, like it's no big deal. And she just wants to downplay everything good about him

so that invalidates him as a person, his feelings and also makes her complaints seem a lot more valid.

I think this is a real easy indication early on in this video of how much she values herself

and how much she really doesn't value him very much.

My experience is very similar to the experience of other women.

I had this amazing husband who on paper was great, but I was incredibly frustrated and burnt out

from our marriage and from motherhood.

Because what happens to so many of us

is that we marry these amazing men,

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