I have no problem talking about like complimenting them if I had a son.

Hey, you're a handsome young man or you're a beautiful girl.

If that's the first thing in the main thing, that's the problem.

I see it on social media all the time.

My beautiful wife, my beautiful kids, that's great.

But for the idea that the only adjective most little girls and boys here

is handsome or beautiful, that's heartbreaking.

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So do you remember how old you were when you first started disliking your body?

What makes you think I just like my body?

I know. I've heard it a thousand times.

What are you talking about?

I mean, I've heard you talk about.

I was shocked when you first got married when you started talking about it.

But I mean, I'm guessing it started when you were a little girl.

Yeah, it was probably nine or ten.

And I used to share a room with my older sister.

She's six years older and I didn't know it at the time, but she was believing it.

And so she has a lot of sexual abuse in her background as I do.

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