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I'm getting more famous at my daughter's school, so that's pretty exciting. Like I've talked about concepts at her school.

I've talked about the way that people date at that age, and they barely even talk to each other, and they just say they're dating.

It's like the activity of the chase of the label of dating seems to be what they're interested in.

I think so and so likes me. I like this person. My friend likes that person. Two days later, oh, did you speak to that person? Do you want me to make a, quote unquote, plan, not a play date? They're too old for that?

And then your kid will be like, no, what do you mean no? Two days ago, you liked them. Two days ago, they liked you. Like, it's fleeting.

But anyway, whenever I talk about that stuff on here, my daughter says her whole school is obsessed with this podcast. So we have tween fans, because I've mentioned, and they'll be like, that's me.

So I'm doing a shout out to my daughter and her school friends and saying, I'm watching you guys. And I know that when you guys go to those bot mitzvists every Saturday night, that they're nightclubs.

This is the craziest thing ever. This this fricking scam. I could not buy my daughter's clothes ever again. I don't need to.

She gets a pair of sweatpants and a sweatshirt and a bot mitzvah every single weekend. And it's like, they're going to nightclubs. They get on at midnight. It's like party time for me. I get to be home, be in pajamas, you know, air fry something.

And my daughter gets home at midnight. And it's like, checks the box because not only does it entertain her on the Saturday. Sunday, they're, they're fricking like, like stuck to the bed, like through rollups.

They don't want to do anything. And they've been activated and had an activity. Half the day Saturday, you don't have to entertain them because they're getting ready.

It's like, these are, this is a great racket like for us. Like, these Saturday night, every night parties for these kids seem like a pan the ass, maybe because of the driving, but try to work that out with friends and car pulls.

But like, the nature of your kid basically going to a legal, underaged, fun, no alcohol nightclub. And they're starting to get ready like three or four. So Saturday is like a wash and have to do much.

And then Sunday, they're, they're jello. And Saturday, they're entertained. Like, you could check off your whole social calendar, like, week in one shot. So I'm all for that shit.

So I've realized that when people die, people want to take ownership of it. So if you ever seen the news when something happens and I was there, I was right there. And I spoke, I spoke to them Tuesday. And this more like people want to own the death of someone.

And sadly, when someone tragically dies, which I've experienced someone that I've known for years, tragically passing away, that people from different areas and different stages of this person's life want to crawl out of the woodwork and own the death.

Like, I grew up with this person or I saw them or I text them or we were close or I know their wife or I built their house or I, you know, made their invitations or I saw them or I go to their, it's really interesting. And people really want to stamp the death. They're part of it.

And I realized because I lost someone several years back that people also want to own how things are done. I've noticed like where someone's buried, what this person would want. And many times people think of themselves, like themselves, other people think of themselves. And are you supposed to think of yourself?

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