There's something Mel Robin says that is, I'm paraphrasing because I have my own version of it,

but I always give credit to the creator.

She says something like how they act is how

they feel. That's not what she said, but this is what I'm saying. Like, what someone does is who someone is.

We create this whole, like, mystical labyrinth of why someone did something. Like, oh, he's been really

busier. He's working. Like, a lot of people, a lot of the matchmakers will say, well, you know,

if someone doesn't text you for a day or two, they can be really busy with work. Like, I'm calling

bullshit. I am one of the busiest people that I have ever met. There's no time that I don't respond instantly. Steve Cohen is a multi-billionaire who is the wizard of Wall Street who also owns the Mets. He's an instantaneous responder. Mark Cuban, I've talked about this before, instantaneous responder. Now, I'm not dating them. They're both married. But if I were and they were into me,

they would be instantaneously responding, unless they were, like, under a piece of furniture,

in a massage, in a board meeting. But it would be the proverbial instantaneous because

someone should be responding to you as they would their kids because they're interested.

It doesn't mean you're as important as their kids. But it means in that moment you are there just, they're not

morons. So how someone interacts, responds, and communicates is who they are and how they feel about

you. Do not try to gaslight yourself. Do not try to come up with some mystical reason something

happened.

You know the difference.

So another thing that goes on.

So I'm the expert on men who have been married, gotten divorce, want to start dating, don't want a gold digger, want someone to talk to, want someone that they feel

like is a business peer, and like I said, someone who's not with them to just be taken care of.

That's men who want a partner.

I'm the queen of that space, okay?

Because people want to set me up with them and they're like, she doesn't need your

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