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I was thinking recently that I was talking to my friend about couples that have been together for years and are still madly in love.

And even if you've only been in a relationship for a brief period of time or it's a year or it's two years, I mean, especially this time of year, it can be really hard.

Like comparing. Think about like, oh, God, look, it can be really hard, like comparing.

Think about like, oh, God, look what he bought her.

Look how romantic she is to him.

Look how much they're having sex.

Look how obsessed with each other they are.

And the truth is, you never really know what's going on behind closed doors.

Now, there are people that are madly in love after all of these years. People could be, there are people that are madly in love after decades.

Some people are nauseated by their own parents because they're obsessed with each. Some people

are nauseated by their own parents because they're obsessed with each other. What does that mean?

Does that mean, A, that they just are luckier? They just met their

partner and they've just never ever looked elsewhere or just been uncertain. Does that mean that

each person was raised with parents that are together that chose each other early, and that's just the example

that have been set. Does that mean that one of these two people suffers from anxiety, the other

one, OCD, one of them had parents that were together. One was raised by wolves. One is a breeder

dog. One is a rescue dog. I mean, the person is a breeder dog or a rescue dog, which is how I

refer to someone who

came from like a well-adjusted background versus raised by animals like myself. So I just, I think about

that. And then also, let's talk about this. What about people that seem perfect and they then get

divorced? That means that they're maybe all show and no go. Many people, the housewives,

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