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Marrying for money.

Feeling the void with stuff and money and someone who is wealthy will avoid you dealing with the real stuff.

So are you not getting what you want sexually, emotionally, from an intellectual standpoint, maybe from a business standpoint, I've seen this too with other people.

It's familiar to me because I recognize it that you are in a relationship and you're able to brag

and flex and show to everybody else how generous your partner is and how much they've bought you.

And your friends think that this is Prince Charming and that how generous your partner is and how much they've bought you.

And your friends think that this is Prince Charming and that, you know,

how could you ever walk away from something like that?

And you're inside your body.

Your mind is saying, I know, this is amazing.

I'm spoiled and I'll never find someone who will spoil me like this again.

But in your body, in your heart, in your truth, you know that there's, there are other things missing. Human connection,

intellectual drive that someone has that you can, you know, that you're challenged by. So many women,

so many women, more than many, not all women, but an almost infinite number of women want to date or marry for money. There's no discussion. I hear all women talking about it. I've been the woman

talking about it. I get it. I really get it. It seems so easy. It looks so easy. You're cute.

You have something to offer. You're young. You have good skin. You're sexy. You're a girl, and that means that a man should buy you drinks and a man

should buy you dinner and you should wait around all year for a man to buy you a Chanel handbag

in the mall. And I've been there. To say that I've been there, I've lived there.

So I grew up, went to like 13 schools, and there were a lot of highs and lows about money.

It was a roller coaster.

My stepfather was a horse trainer, and so we were near a lot of money at the racetrack with a lot of rich horse

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