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All right, let's do some dating questions.

My guy checks all the important boxes, but he doesn't ask me deep questions.

That's because he's a guy.

That's because he's a guy.

Now, the question is, is he selfish?

I believe in astrology a little bit, and there are some signs that point to selfish, and I've checked it out.

And it doesn't mean that obviously signs are the only indication of selfishness.

But selfishness is someone who's not asking you about yourself at all. Like I was talking to tinks

about this and you could sit on a date and go a significant period of time without someone asking about

you. And I've had that with my daughter too. I dated someone that's really specific in my mind right now

and he never asked her about her.

He really was interested in me but didn't engage her.

Now, it doesn't mean he's totally...

I mean, and I'm putting labels on someone.

You don't know the reason why.

This guy, because he has some personal issues,

is not intentionally selfish. It's just the nature of him being focused on

himself. So the thing is, with any man or relationship, you have to weigh out what's important to

you. As you get older, different things become important to you. And also, are they additive?

And do they enrich your life becomes important? And the reason that I tell young women to work

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