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So I've been talking about abhorting dates because I've aborted multiple dates and I've been talking about this on social media.

And later I'm going to get into the stories.

But the date abort is about cutting your losses.

It doesn't mean just being afraid and running into your cave.

It means doing a little bit of due diligence and trusting your gut and your instincts.

And if something feels bad in your body,

not going. So you got to find that line between being scared and just not wanting to put

yourself out there and in something not feeling right in your body. And sometimes something

doesn't feel right in my body and it feels like a pink flag. And I'll go and I'll do a deeper

dive as a result of that.

And it's left me inside someone's divorce agreement, finding out that their ex-wife supports

them and that they were lying about how much they make.

It's left me finding out that someone was lying and pretending they live in a certain area

that they don't, that they're hanging out with a certain wealthy person that they're not. And it's left me realizing that a person wouldn't give me

their last name. And I could have mistakenly met with them and put myself at risk. Like,

dating is also a risky business. And so I've aborted multiple dates. And it's not because I think I'm better than. It's not because I will never be happy and I can't be alone and I just have to wait. I'm not ready. It's not because of any of those things. It's because I don't want to go out on a date with someone who is supporting a woman who asked me to pick them up on the way to the date. I don't feel good about it.

And one thing I talk a lot that comes up in every time I talk about a date abort, I don't like

how it makes me feel. I don't like how this is making me feel. Like you're allowed to say that.

You're allowed to be that. I had a guy on a text very early in. I don't know this

person. I've never met them. Start judging the fact that I'm friends with a married couple and go to

dinner at their house and will sit next to the man in the married couple because he's a business-minded

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