Hey everyone, welcome to The Curious Girl Diaries podcast. I'm Layla London, aka The Curious Girl.

Now just to let you know, this podcast is not suitable for work. It's also not suitable for anybody under 18.

But the rest of you consenting adults, let's get ready to talk about my sex life, sex in general, and everything in between an explicit, raunchy, fun detail.

All right, here we go.

A lot of people fantasize about that. It's not unusual. I think a lot of people, for a lot of people, when they hear rape play, like they hear the word rape, that's a very polarizing term. But when you really break it down and understand it, it's just, it's a role play and it's a consensual, what I like to call consensual non-consent, that you and this person, that your partner have agreed,

these are the terms of it, these are the hard limits and what you'd like to have done and they're

into that and you're into that. As women, we're just so multifaceted. We have so many different needs.

And so I think sometimes where women end up disappointed or selling themselves short is

that they feel like there's one person that has to meet all their needs. I feel like that's a really,

really hard expectation to put on one person. When you have more than one partner, I found that you

actually get to really, really just appreciate each person for what they bring to the table without secretly holding it against them a little bit, those factors that they don't bring to the table.

With the BDSM, it just sort of, for me, helps clearly define the roles and gives you structure.

And I like that.

And I feel that women do well with that, really well with that.

When you give up that power and there's that power exchange,

I mean, that's why they call it a power exchange. You know, when you're really with the right person,

it is, you know, it is a give and a take. But you're able to give up that power. And the converse for

the sub in that moment is that through that release of that, there's freedom.

Hey guys, welcome to the Curious Girl to Ries podcast. I'm Leila. Well, I am now almost, I guess,

just a day shy of being a one week Floridian. So I've been in Florida for almost a week.

Tomorrow, I'm having a good time, still getting acclimated, still lots of stuff to do. I really actually even haven't had

a moment's rest. However, I'm still, of course, getting my podcasts out because I love you guys. Well,

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