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Mayim Bialik's Breakdown

Julia Stiles, "I Wanted to Be a Serious Actress." From Actor to Director: 90's Fame, Hollywood Dreams & Struggles.

Mayim Bialik's Breakdown

Mayim Bialik

Mental Health, Society & Culture, Wellness, Health & Fitness, Comedy, Thebigbangtheory, Spirituality, Selfimprovement, Mentalhealth

4.75.2K Ratings

🗓️ 11 February 2025

⏱️ 83 minutes

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Summary

Julia Stiles, the iconic actress known for 10 Things I Hate About You, Save The Last Dance, Mona Lisa’s Smile, Dexter and the Bourne films, opens up with Mayim and Jonathan about her unexpected shift from acting to directing. Julia reveals why she almost turned down her legendary role in THE BOURNE IDENTITY! She also shares why she doesn’t believe in auditions and the surprising truth about her dance career after SAVE THE LAST DANCE. Plus, find out how raising her kids shaped her approach to directing WISH YOU WERE HERE and why she calls 10 THINGS I HATE ABOUT YOU a 90’s “time capsule” of her teen years. Tune in for an unfiltered conversation about Julia’s career evolution, life lessons, and the personal experiences that have shaped her journey!

Transcript

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0:00.0

I grew up in New York City, especially a 17-year-old girl walking down the street is not going

0:03.9

to be smiling at people because that's dangerous.

0:06.5

The street smarts in me knew not to do that.

0:08.5

So you go into the commercial auditions and when they're saying like, you need to smile more

0:12.4

when you talk about how great tide is, it was hard for me.

0:15.5

I wanted to be like a serious actress, but you're young and everybody wants something else.

0:20.5

Ten things I hate about you.

0:21.6

That script was revelatory to me.

0:23.6

That part spoke to me so much.

0:25.6

I wanted it so badly.

0:27.6

I loved that Cat was outspoken and feisty and didn't really care what other people thought of her.

0:32.6

It was almost aspirational for me to be that kind of independent and confident.

0:43.1

Hi, I'm Miami Amiolic. I'm Jonathan Cohen. And welcome to our breakdown. This is the place

0:47.4

where we break things down, so you don't have to. Ma'am, you know what I haven't asked you lately?

0:51.8

What? How are you? How are you doing? I don't want you to

0:55.0

ask me that. That's why you haven't asked it. Why don't you want me to ask you that? It's actually a trick

0:59.6

question. Our society has taught us that most people don't want to hear the answer to that, but I truly

1:05.4

want to know how are you doing? Before I answer how I am, I want to say that we're going to be speaking to, quote, one of the most fearless and talented actresses in Hollywood, Julia Stiles. And we're going to get some really interesting perspective on how to approach many aspects of living, being okay, working, incorporating so many parts of you into a life. But before we get

1:31.4

to that, I'm going to answer your question. It's been a very active 2025. I think there's been a lot

1:37.6

more things that have happened than I anticipated what happened globally, domestically. It just feels like it's been, a lot of people

1:48.2

are saying, like, this has been the longest January, right? It's the long, I feel like it's been

1:53.8

a whole year and we're barely into 2025. Like, enough has happened. It's like it feels like that's

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