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This question was sent in from a guy his name is Jay that's what we're going to call him and this is his question. I made the

decision to honor God with my body early in my adult life. As a result I am not very experienced

sexually. I once opened up about this to a girl I

considered dating and she was actually a virgin and she persecuted me saying I

needs that saying that she needed someone who knows what he's doing. So his

question is how can I move forward in confidence while

trying to pursue a wife and not fear that I'll be persecuted or turned down

even from a woman in the church and even a virgin due to my lack of sexual

experience. As crazy as this sounds I fear even judgment from you and your friends

for asking this question.

Would you be interested in making a video answering this question on YouTube?

Well, Jay, there are children who watch my YouTube, so we're going to sick to the podcast, which I think there might be kids that listen to this too, but I told you all a hundred times this is for 18 and up, so sorry.

Okay, let's jump into this.

First of all, this is heartbreaking because when he says that he fears judgment from me and my friends

for asking this question, first of all, if any of my friends are judging this guy for asking this question

can you just send me a text really quick and just let me know and then I'm going to

call you and go off on you in a very kind you know g-rated way because like these are

the this is I have so many things to say.

I don't know where to start.

Oh my gosh, okay.

This is, this takes so much courage for him to send this question.

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