Jessie Reyez on Why Boundaries Are a Form of Love
LOVERS by shan
LOVERS by shan
5 • 5.5K Ratings
🗓️ 26 March 2025
⏱️ 45 minutes
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We also talk about her upcoming album, Paid in Memories, which promises to be a raw and powerful exploration of love, loss, and acceptance. Don’t miss this candid and inspiring conversation that’s all about choosing yourself, even when it’s hard because self-respect is never up for negotiation.
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| 0:00.0 | There's a lot of people that don't get it, that don't get the like price of sacrifice, |
| 0:04.0 | and you barely have time for yourself. |
| 0:10.0 | New album coming out. |
| 0:11.0 | Cooring, traveling, killing it. |
| 0:13.0 | It's in everyone's best interest for you to be honest and treat yourself like your own best friend and set boundaries so that you don't turn into an asshole. |
| 0:20.0 | But the daughter and the friend in me feels guilty. |
| 0:22.6 | Is pursuing a romantic relationship really the priority right now? |
| 0:27.6 | I don't want anyone to be with me that's being like, oh well she's almost great. |
| 0:30.6 | I have to make these concessions like, no, you should want to embrace me. |
| 0:34.6 | I have more discernment now when choosing and also more discernment when saying goodbye |
| 0:39.3 | to someone I've gotten way better at that. |
| 0:41.3 | The internet has dubbed that you're in your lover girl era right now. |
| 0:44.3 | Confirm or deny. |
| 0:45.3 | Your shoes are about to get muddy too. |
| 0:55.0 | Perfect. What? |
| 0:57.0 | Part for the course for this week. |
| 0:59.0 | I actually very much enjoyed you hearing you say that. |
| 1:01.0 | How you doing? |
| 1:02.0 | Ah, alive. Sleepy, but alive. |
| 1:05.0 | So grateful. |
| 1:06.0 | A Grammy, Grammy nominated. |
| 1:08.0 | No Grammy. |
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