He was the first person to ever buy me a drink at the bar, so he bought me a

medori sour. Yes, that was my drink when I was 21.

I'm Nora McEnerney and this is terrible thanks for asking. And I am in no place

to judge what anyone drank at age 21 or at any other age because my drink of

choice in my youth was whatever was available and lots of it. But today's

medori sour drinking guest is named Angela and the guy who bought her that

medori sour is Jeff. He was a lot older, he was bald, he just was the

antithesis of anything that I'd ever found attractive but I didn't know what

the protocol was. When someone buys you a drink at the bar so I decided to go

say thank you and be friendly and he invited me to sit with him and his friends

and we just started talking and we talked and tell the bar closed and then he

took me home. We shared an awkward kiss, we like kissed and I was like thanks and I

didn't know what to do and then I literally just ran out of the car. So maybe not

the sexiest first date but you know what's attractive about Jeff that he's in

his 30s. He's a legit adult man who knows himself and Angela finds that very

appealing and after that awkward first kiss the two of them continue hanging out

and before you know it they're in a serious relationship and they're talking

about a future together. We just kept talking and going on outdoor dates, hiking,

bike riding, everything was just so easy. It was like being reunited with a friend

from high school that you hadn't seen for a really long time and you just fall

right back into it. He was transparent and open and he didn't play a lot of the

games that guys in their 20s typically do. It was like coming home if home was a

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