Jayson Gaddis - Turning Conflict Into Connection

ManTalks Podcast

Connor Beaton

Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Education, Mental Health, Relationships, Self-improvement

4.8 • 591 Ratings

🗓️ 9 October 2017

⏱️ 66 minutes

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Summary

Jayson Gaddis, relationship student & teacher and host of the Smart Couple Podcast, is on a mission to teach people the one class they didn’t get in school– "How to do Romantic Relationships.” That’s why he founded The Relationship School®. He was emotionally constipated for years before relationship failure forced him to turn his life over to learning about relationships. Now, he’s been married to his amazing wife since 2007 (after some brutal break ups) and has two beautiful kids. When he doesn’t live and breathe this stuff with his family, he pretty much gets his ass handed to him. Jayson teaches individuals how to use conflict to create a more fulfilling and sustainable relationship. He teaches virtual relationship empowerment classes to students around the globe. Most importantly, Jayson teaches that hidden within any and all relationship pain are the seeds of you getting more empowered in your life and more connected to yourself. Even though many of his school teachers said he sucked at writing, he writes anyway. His first book for the Smart Couple’s will be out November 2017. He has also written for The Good Men Project, Elephant Journal, Your Tango, The Jungle Of Life, Primer Magazine, Integral Life, and Recovering Yogi. Some topics in this podcast: - Conflict, how to lean into it and resolve it - How to transform conflict into intimacy - The relationship between judgement and accountability/ownership - Identifying the insecurity that is the root cause of conflict - The relationship between your nervous system and conflict - How to “do” romantic relationships - What is hidden and deeply embedded in your relationship pain - When to let go of a relationship and when to stay - 2 questions to identify your triggers & work through them Check out the mini-episode "How To Know When To Go": https://mantalks.com/how-to-know-when-to-go/ For more information about ManTalks or to join a ManTalks Mastermind: Click Here Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Stitcher Radio | Android For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.com Facebook | Instagram | Twitter Some Questions Connor Asks:Could you share a defining moment for you? - 4:11 Why do so many men drag a relationship out instead of ending it? - 6:36 How can we be better about dealing with conflict? - 14:59 How do relationships effect nervous systems within couples? - 21:11 Can you repack the different types of reactivity and how do we address it? - 28:45 Did you enjoy the podcast?If so please leave us a review on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks Community! Thank You to the Team:Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Welcome guys and gals to the Mantox podcast.
0:11.7	I'm Connor Beaton, the host and founder of Mantox.
0:14.4	This podcast brings together the best thought leaders, teachers, and extraordinary individuals
0:19.1	to help teach and mentor you on how to be a top performer
0:22.5	in life, love, and business.
0:25.1	The mission of Man Talks is to help develop self-aware, high-performing, and impactful
0:29.4	men in the world, the type of men you want to be, and the type of men you want to be around.
0:34.4	Just a quick reminder to all the guys out there who are tuning in today to head on over
0:38.5	to Facebook.com forward slash man talks dash community and join the conversation. We've got a great
0:44.2	community of men from all over the world who are a part of that conversation. We talk about
0:49.0	finances, fitness, how to be your best self. We talk about relationships. We talk about entrepreneurship,
0:55.0	you name it. We dive into it. So joining me today is Mr. Jason Gattis, who's a friend of
1:01.4	mine. He's had me on his podcast before. And he is not a relationship expert because I hate
1:08.3	using that word, but he really is knowledgeable around relationships,
1:14.3	around the neuroscience of relationships.
1:16.7	And so we're going to talk about a few things around relationships.
1:21.5	So first and foremost, we're going to talk about conflict today.
1:24.1	We're going to talk about how to face conflict.
1:27.1	We're going to talk about how to resolve conflict. We're going to talk about how to resolve
1:28.1	conflict. We're going to talk about how to transform conflict into intimacy. So how to, you know,
1:34.1	why it's so important to actually address conflict in our relationships and why this is one of
1:39.6	the most single important factors in a healthy relationship. So conflict is often the piece that
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