I think a lot of the time in relationships, you make someone feel broken because you keep fixing them.

Whereas if you teach people how to heal themselves, then you've actually helped them.

So I always tell people that loving someone means you make them fall more in love with themselves,

not more in love with you.

Hey everyone, welcome back to On Purpose, the number one health podcast in the world.

Thanks to each and every one of you that come back every week to become happier, healthier and more

healed. And I am so excited to be talking to you today. I can't believe it. My new book,

Eight Rules of Love is out and I cannot wait to share with you. I am so so excited for you to read

this book, for you to listen to this book. I read the audiobook. If you haven't got it already,

make sure you go to eight rules of love.com. It's dedicated to anyone who's trying to find,

keep or let go of love. So if you've got friends that are dating, broken up or struggling with love,

make sure you grab this book. And I'd love to invite you to come and see me for my global tour.

Love rules. Go to jsheddytor.com to learn more information about tickets, VIP experiences,

and more. I can't wait to see you this year. Now today's guest is someone who's so hard to book,

like literally like the most difficult we, we booked these incredible guests every single week.

And this person just like, I just, it's so hard to find a spot in their schedule, like no matter

how much you try, like we've been working with their team for the last two years. This guest

hasn't come on the show for the last two years. We took my other one and only my heart, my wife,

Rady Devlyk here. Two years I took to get you back on this show. I didn't even realise it's been two

years, but also what do we have to talk about every year? A yearly podcast? Also, I'm busy.

So annual check-in. I know, is it? Yeah, and I'm so sorry. Our sharing, our challenges,

our wins, our our our our company has been two years though. It's been two years since you've been on

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