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Hey there. So the other day, maybe you caught us talking about this. I'm not sure if you did or not.

I was talking about things I would want my daughter to look for in a man. And I made a very brief list.

Sherry said, hey, you ought to post that.

I did yesterday.

And there's more than a thousand shares, which is great.

So people were interested in.

I'm happy about that.

The thing is, whenever you make a list like that, like, the way men ought to be,

the way a guy ought to be sometimes it comes

off as this idealized pie in the sky list of all these qualities a man should have i just wrote a few

things and they're basic this is stuff like he's not a narcissist i mean he treats people with

respect even if they can't do anything for him.

So guys who are looking at this, if they're going to look at that list and be like,

oh, so Mr. Perfect is what we're trying to, like, no, no, this isn't perfect.

This is like not being a monster.

Right.

Which is not a lot to ask for.

No, it's really not.

It's just basic stuff that I would never, if I was a female, I would, like, if he doesn't

have those things, forget it.

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