J.R. MARTINEZ | How Your Scars Shape You
Order of Man
Ryan Michler
4.8 • 9K Ratings
🗓️ 8 October 2024
⏱️ 103 minutes
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Summary
Men, we all have scars. Some are visible. Some are not. Some are physical. And, some are mental and emotional. Regardless of the scars you carry around, the stories behind them have the ability to shape you, for better or worse.
My guest today, 101st Airborne Division Combat Veteran, J.R. Martinez, has easily-seen external scars. But rather than use those scars as an excuse to self-destruct, Martinez has, instead, decided to use the stories and the lessons he’s learned on the road to recovery to make himself a better man. Today, J.R. and I talk about deliberately changing your perspective on life, what he calls, “God Winks,” and how to use them effectively in your life, how to get over perceived emasculation and make yourself into more, crafting a new identity for yourself when the old one is ripped from you, and how a man effectively deals with persecution from others.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(00:00) Episode Intro
(00:40) Relationship Challenges and Parenthood Success
(04:21) Journey to Parenthood and Self-Discovery
(09:31) Setting Boundaries With Overprotective Mothers
(14:04) Breaking Generational Patterns
(26:33) Recognizing Signs and Seizing Opportunities
(36:15) Navigating Life's Challenges and Opportunities
(40:32) Perspective Shift Through Life's Challenges
(50:58) Surviving a Traumatic Military Incident
(58:02) Embracing Hope and Optimism
(01:09:26) Overcoming Challenges in Public Eye
(01:15:05) Finding Hope Through Unexpected Interactions
(01:24:43) Embracing Vulnerability and Healing
(01:29:32) Navigating Relationships and Overcoming Trauma
(01:33:30) Embracing Imperfections and Growth
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| 0:00.0 | Men, we all have scars, some are visible, some are not, some are physical, and some are mental and emotional. |
| 0:06.0 | But regardless of the scars you carry around, the stories behind them have the ability to shape you for better or worse. |
| 0:13.1 | My guest today, 101st Airborne Division |
| 0:15.3 | Combat Veteran J.R. Martinez has easily seen external scars, |
| 0:20.4 | but rather than use those scars as an excuse to self-destruct, Martinez has |
| 0:24.7 | instead decided to use the stories and lessons he's learned on the road to recovery |
| 0:29.0 | to make himself a better man. Today, J.R. and I talk about deliberately changing your perspective on life, what he |
| 0:36.0 | calls God Winks and how to use them effectively in your life, how to get over-perceived |
| 0:41.6 | emasculation and make yourself into more, |
| 0:44.4 | crafting a new identity for yourself when the old one is ripped from you |
| 0:48.1 | and how a man effectively deals with persecution from others. |
| 0:51.5 | You're a man of action. |
| 0:53.0 | You live life to the fullest. |
| 0:54.4 | Embrace your fears, and boldly charge your own path. |
| 0:57.3 | When life knocks you down, you get back up one more time, |
| 1:00.8 | every time. |
| 1:01.8 | You are not easily deterred, defeated, rugged, resilient, strong. |
| 1:07.0 | This is your life, this is who you are, this is who you will become at the end of the day, |
| 1:12.4 | and after all is said and done you can call yourself a man. |
| 1:17.0 | Gentlemen welcome to the Order of Man podcast. I am Ryan Mickler. This is a movement to help you reclaim and restore |
| 1:25.3 | masculinity and not just you on the micro level but on the macro level recover |
| 1:31.0 | restore reestablish whatever term you want to use, |
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