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In the Loop with Andy Andrews

ITL181: How to Help Your Child Become a Great Conversationalist

In the Loop with Andy Andrews

Matt Lempert

Business

4.9614 Ratings

🗓️ 18 April 2015

⏱️ 22 minutes

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Summary

On this week’s episode, I talk about how parents can train their kids to tell good stories in a conversational setting.

 

The most important thing when telling a story is to be interesting.

  • Don’t be boring!
  • Make sure that you speak correctly.
  • The way someone talks can get in the way of a listener’s mental process when having a conversation.

 

Around our house, people get points for being clever or witty.

  • We read witty things, and when somebody discovers something clever, we share it with one another.
  • Figuring out good questions to pose is essential.
  • If you want to raise children who can hold an interesting conversation, they must have good questions at the ready.

 

You cannot get away with not knowing how to communicate effectively and be a functioning adult in society today.

  • You and I know a ton of people who inadvertently go through their lives expecting the worst to happen.
  • I want our boys walking through life appreciating the humorous and clever things.
  • A common question in our house is, “What was the funniest thing that happened at school today?”
  • In the end, it’s all about creating memories.

 

In the full episode, I discuss what to do if your teenager doesn’t talk to you.

 

Questions for Listeners

Do you have a question? Call in and your question might be featured on the show!

  • Phone: 1-800-726-ANDY
  • E-Mail: InTheLoop@AndyAndrews.com
  • Facebook.com/AndyAndrews
  • Twitter.com/AndyAndrews

 

Transcript

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0:00.0

You're listening to In the Loop, a unique opportunity to see life from a different perspective

0:06.5

with New York Times bestselling author, Andy Andrews.

0:10.4

Now here's your host, David Loy.

0:12.9

Hi and welcome to In The Loop with Andy Andrews.

0:16.2

I'm your host, David Loy.

0:17.7

Andy, I am thrilled that we are once again sitting across the table from each other.

0:21.3

Are you thrilled?

0:22.1

I am.

0:22.7

Instead of us being on.

0:24.0

Not just excited, but you're thrilled.

0:25.8

Instead of me staring at a screen or only hearing your voice, I'm actually looking at

0:29.2

your face today.

0:29.8

I've gotten to where I like doing these so much hanging out up here in Nashville

0:36.8

with you guys. I'd rather not do it on Skype.

0:40.8

Yes, absolutely. And it's more fun, more entertaining. And you get to be in the room with Matt

0:45.6

as well, Matt Lemberg, our wonderful audio engineer who puts all of this together. And now that I'm

0:51.4

looking at your face, I'm also seeing, and I've got to ask,

0:54.3

maybe I shouldn't ask this on the air, but what's up with your arms? You've got all kinds of

0:58.4

little cuts and scrapes and stuff on your arms. Oh, good grief. Last, I know, and it's like,

1:05.0

I'm keeping this triple antibiotic stuff all. You think that's bad. You should see like my chest area because I was I was

1:13.0

crossing we have a like a vacant lot in between us and our nearest neighbors there

1:19.4

probably told me the comens were over at the house I didn't see them a long time so I'm

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