Winning is not about the trophy and the accolades.

It's about the grind, it's about the obstacles, it's about the challenges, it's about the pain.

The reason I know so much about winning is because I've had to deal with so much losing.

Everybody wants to win, but in order to know how to win, you got to know how to lose.

Because you're going to lose more than you're going to win. But what are you gain from it?

You've trained some of the greatest of the grades, Michael Jordan, Kobe Bryant, Charles Barkley, Duane Wade.

So you know something about winning, you know something about sustaining winning over time.

Your mind has to immediately shift back because now you felt the taste of something that you can only get through winning.

Are you willing to do it together?

And that was one of Kobe's favorite words when it related to winning. He says, you have to be obsessed with whatever your win is. Be all in.

Three greatest lessons I learned from Michael.

Competing, accountability, and then winning at all levels.

Winning at all levels, what does that mean?

You just don't win in one arena. You win in your sports. You win in business. You win in your personal life.

Other people win because you win. It isn't just about you. It's about being able to pull the team and show them what it feels like to win.

And this isn't about playing basketball like Michael Jordan did, like the late great Kobe Bryant, Duane Wade.

This is about having a mindset to win.

When you fail, your feelings give you excuses. Your mind makes you want to survive.

You look at when Kobe, his first playoff series, he had this horrible game where he shot like four or five straight air balls.

Now, he could have came back next year and said, I got to pull everybody, that's a man you're too young, why'd you take it?

No, it was just like, you know what? That's on me. I have to hold them over. Now, I got to prove to myself I can overcome this because now everybody else is doubting me, but I can't doubt myself.

Everybody told MJ, don't call the North Carolina, you'll never play. You shouldn't be here. And Michael went out and said, I don't need to prove to Coach, I don't need to prove to Buzz, I need to prove to myself that I belong here.

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