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The Daily Dad

It Takes a Lot Out of Us

The Daily Dad

Daily Dad

Relationships, Education, Ryan Holiday, Society & Culture, Wisdom, Self-improvement, Kids & Family, Parenting, Fatherhood, Dads

4.6 β€’ 630 Ratings

πŸ—“οΈ 16 January 2026

⏱️ 4 minutes

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Summary

We made a decision to have kids many years ago and then for years, that decision works on us, shaping, changing, transforming us.


πŸ“š Book Mentioned: The Velveteen Rabbit


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0:32.3

Welcome to the Daily Dad podcast, where we provide one lesson every single day to help you with your

0:39.8

most important job, being a parent. I'm Ryan Holiday, and I draw these lessons from ancient

0:46.9

philosophy, modern psychology, practical wisdom, and insights from parents just like you all over the world. Thank you for listening, and we hope

0:57.8

this helps. None of this was free. You knew that intellectually, and it hit you, especially if you're

1:04.5

an American, when you first saw that bill from the hospital. But of course, parenting takes a lot more

1:10.4

from us than just money.

1:12.6

It wears on us. It steals sleep and energy. It taxes our patients. It covers us, literally,

1:18.1

in bruises and scars. It keeps us up at night worry. It takes time, so much time, so much time in

1:24.9

the car waiting in waiting rooms, watching their little league

1:27.5

games or recitals. And, as we've said before, it's a wonderful part of the process.

1:35.1

We've been quoting recently from the old children's story, The Velvetine Rabbit,

1:39.2

which I actually just read for the first time, I have a great edition at the Painted Portchus.

1:42.7

Check out, it's a story about a toy that's so loved by a young boy that it becomes real. This is a great

1:50.4

metaphor for parenting in a way because that's what's happening to us. We made a decision to

1:55.8

have kids many years ago and then for years that decision works on us, shaping and changing and transforming us.

2:03.0

No part of that is more powerful than the love and energy of our children, whose joy, whose

2:08.6

innocence, whose pain, whose growth is always working on us, even as it takes so much out of us.

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