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The Daily Dad

It Should Be The Easiest Thing In The World

The Daily Dad

Daily Dad

Relationships, Education, Ryan Holiday, Society & Culture, Wisdom, Self-improvement, Kids & Family, Parenting, Fatherhood, Dads

4.6630 Ratings

🗓️ 20 July 2021

⏱️ 3 minutes

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Summary

“Parenting is very hard. Keeping your kids safe. Keeping them fed. Keeping them in the best schools, making sure they get good grades in those schools. We have to do all this as we navigate a world where Murphy’s Law is real, where bills have to get paid, where we have our own crap to deal with that no one is going to handle for us.”

Ryan explains how to be a great parent right here right now. 

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Daily Dad podcast where we provide one lesson every day to help you with your most important job being a dad.

0:15.3

These are lessons inspired by ancient philosophy, by practical wisdom, and insights from dads all over the world.

0:22.8

Thank you for listening, and we hope this helps.

0:31.3

It should be the easiest thing in the world.

0:35.2

Parenting is very hard.

0:37.2

Keeping your kids safe, keeping them fed, keeping

0:39.4

them in the best schools, making sure they're getting good grades in those schools. We have to do this

0:44.1

as we navigate a world where Murphy's law is real, where bills have to get paid, where we have

0:49.5

our own crap to deal with that no one is going to handle for us. In that sense, parenting is an impossible job

0:55.3

with impossible expectations. Yet in another very real sense, being a parent is actually about the

1:01.2

easiest job in the world because what do they really need? What is really demanded of you?

1:06.5

That you love them, that you accept them, that you support and encourage them. Nothing, literally

1:13.0

nothing short of death can stop you from that. In fact, if you do right while you're here,

1:18.6

those feelings can transcend death too. And yet so many of us struggle with these simple tasks,

1:25.0

don't we? We're short with them. We have unfair expectations of our kids.

1:29.2

We prioritize the wrong stuff. We let things get in between us and that love. That should stop today.

1:36.5

We can be great parents right here, right now, no matter what's happening in the world. No matter what

1:41.9

our other responsibilities are. Loving our kids is the easiest, simplest thing in the world. No matter what our other responsibilities are, loving our kids is the easiest,

1:45.8

simplest thing in the world. Accept them? Full stop. Cheer for them. Be their biggest van. Let them know

1:53.7

these things are all that matter to you. Not later, not conditionally, not reluctantly, because this is

1:59.4

hard for me, but completely and utterly.

2:02.6

It's the simplest thing in the world. And as custodians of the next generation, it's the only

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