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Hi. Hi. How are you? What can I help you with, Elisa? Yeah, so I called today because I got married in May.

My husband and I, ever since we've gotten married, basically every single time that we've

had sex, it's been very, like, silent, like, no touching, kissing, no passion, no, like, love.

I don't really feel like I'm being loved when we are having sex.

What is, I hate to ask this in a way, but tell me what the sex looks like.

You guys are in the kitchen, you finish your dinner, how do we get to having sex, and what does it look like?

First, we both have to take a shower because he doesn't want to do it unless we're both clean and usually like it's me

basically we're getting ready for bed and then he comes in the room and then he like initiates it

or what does he do to initiate it what does he do to initiate it?

He grabbed my hand and puts it on his penis.

That's how he initiates it?

Usually, yeah.

I would say like 80% of the time, that's how it is.

And what do you do, massage him to get an erection, and then you have intercourse.

Yes, ma'am.

Does he take care of you, make sure you have a climax? Does he kiss and hug and caress you all over the place?

There has been times where he had me. He did make i had a climax but he doesn't hug kiss me or

caress me all over the place he doesn't do that so how long we were dating him nine months oh god's

sake why why you really thought that was enough time to know somebody, to spend the rest of

your life with them? You really thought nine months you knew everything about him? Tell me,

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